To consider seducing the hot neighbour?

[Rae34]

No idea how I'd go about it in practice but:

Hot (and I think single neighbour) is seriously gorgeous. I think he caught me admiring him from the window once when he was scantily scad one morning 😁 I did a very obvious 'quick look away from the curtain' move.

Anyway I see him out and about a lot/we say hello but that is it. Today I ran downstairs to collect something a friend was dropping off with NO make up thinking I'll see no one (but a great hair day) and there he was coming home. I clocked him giving me that up and down body sweep then he actually stopped and tried to talk to me. I rushed off to see my friend and when I came back he was still hanging around and began talking to me again (and checked me out again 😃). I had to leave but I was left thinking 'oh he fancies you too!'.

YANBU - dont ever sleep with or date a neighbour, that's crazy
YABU - It's gonna be a long cold (possibly locked down) winter, go for it.

I have no strategy and am open to suggestions. Just wanted to hear what people think.....

Just ask him out. At least have a proper date before you drag him off to bed. 😊

I realise you only posted this a couple of hours ago but I'm disappointed it hasn't happened yet

Do it! In fact as the OP has gone quiet, who thinks maybe she already is!!

Do it, do it, do it!

And return with news!

I did and we’re getting married

Haha I've have just returned to this thread since posting. Enjoying the consensus so far

It was easier in summer when he used to sit outside half naked sun bathing so fit and it was easier to join him and strike up conversation. But now it is turning colder the opportunity to bump into him will be less....Hmm...

I think we would have talked for longer earlier if my friend hadnt been there. He is quite charismatic which I like.

Do it! Life's too short.

Go bang on the door and ask to borrow some random item

He knows! You know! It's fine

Run next door and ask him to take a look at your electrics (having flipped your fuses down first) and go from there.....Why have you not done this yet?!

Following

Which celebrity does he look like?

@SheSaidHummingbird similar to Alexander Skarsgård I'd say celeb wise

Pop a note under his door inviting him round for a drink.
DO IT

Do it! Or regret it. I don’t understand the “own doorstep” comments. You each have your own front doors.

Definitely shag him.

If he checked you out without makeup, he might be one of those strange men who prefer women with minimal makeup. Some men do think that if you can see the makeup, then there's too much.

I’ve just googled Alexander Skarsgard. If you don’t seduce your neighbour I’ll come round and do it myself

I love a good romantic story so shamelessly marking for updates.
Go girl you're moving anyway 👍

I've done it and would highly recommend it...... saves a fortune in taxi's 🤣

@Rae34

Oh I should say I will probably be moving in the next couple of months. Almost a certainty.

Well then of course.

Trot round there now in your nightie and ask to borrow a cup of milk ...

Without question ... go for it!

... as long as you're both single of course 😉

What better way to spend a Sunday? Invite him over, stylish but casual dress and “forget” to put your knix on. Always works .

Crack on! Life's too short.
Enjoy!

Shag him! Never miss a good opportunity.

@custardbear

Without question ... go for it!

... as long as you're both single of course 😉

Not keen on the 😉 here.

Obviously if either not single then don't do it.