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To consider seducing the hot neighbour?

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Rae34 · 10/10/2020 19:58

No idea how I'd go about it in practice but:

Hot (and I think single neighbour) is seriously gorgeous. I think he caught me admiring him from the window once when he was scantily scad one morning 😁 I did a very obvious 'quick look away from the curtain' move.

Anyway I see him out and about a lot/we say hello but that is it. Today I ran downstairs to collect something a friend was dropping off with NO make up thinking I'll see no one (but a great hair day) and there he was coming home. I clocked him giving me that up and down body sweep then he actually stopped and tried to talk to me. I rushed off to see my friend and when I came back he was still hanging around and began talking to me again (and checked me out again 😃). I had to leave but I was left thinking 'oh he fancies you too!'.

YANBU - dont ever sleep with or date a neighbour, that's crazy
YABU - It's gonna be a long cold (possibly locked down) winter, go for it.

I have no strategy and am open to suggestions. Just wanted to hear what people think.....

OP posts:
Yamaya · 11/10/2020 16:20

If he looks like Alexander Skarsgård then you will be very unreasonable not to shag!
Go for it, and please update! Grin

Lottapianos · 11/10/2020 16:26

Gosh how exciting. Go for it!

LaVitaPuoEsserePiuBella · 11/10/2020 16:34

Carpe Diem!

ShinyMe · 11/10/2020 17:54

Awww I miss that flirty excitement stage! Go for it OP!

(My neighbours are all old and unattractive or half my age and gay. My next door neighbour is a lovely chap, and built me a security gate last year, but is in his 70s and married and sunbathes with his sweaty arse crack on display, so I'm jealous of your hot neighbour.)

CatRamsey · 11/10/2020 18:38

Wheres your update OP? Wink

Branleuse · 11/10/2020 18:40

yeah why not. Life is for living

TheABC · 11/10/2020 19:21

Best case scenario; you get a hot bloke to warm your bed.

Worst case scenario; he will be flattered that you asked...and you are moving in a few months.

I would go with the wine invite, but then I have never been subtle about my relationships.

MistyMinge2 · 11/10/2020 19:25

You definitely need to go have amazing sex with your very hot neighbour. Do it. Just be sure to report back!

isthismylifenow · 11/10/2020 19:42

I am jealous. I don't have one good looking or available neighbour

TurquoiseDragon · 11/10/2020 19:49

I'd go for it. Good luck 💐

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