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Furious after hospital visit WWYD?

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DameLucy · 07/10/2020 22:29

Sorry this might be long. I’m just so furious and don’t know what to do so would welcome some perspective.
My elderly father was taken into hospital on Tuesday after a fall at home and was admitted overnight.
The following day, yesterday, I made an appointment to visit. One visitor only, only 2 in a bay at any one time so one hour appointments needed to be made. When I turned up for my appointment, staff met me and ensured I had mask, apron and gloves on prior to going into his bay.
As I arrived in the bay, dad was with the physiotherapist and nursing staff who told me that he could go home and that they had organised an ambulance to take him. It turned out that dad, in a wheelchair, and two ambulance staff were standing waiting for the lift outside his ward at the same time as me as we left at the same time.
As the lift came, there was a patient, in pyjamas, in a wheelchair with a hospital staff member - in a nurses type of uniform but accept that she may not have actually been a nurse - could have been another staff member - in the lift.
I said to the ambulance guys with my father to go in and I would walk down the stairs. As I said this I realised that only 3 people could use the lift at any one time so as there was already 2 people in, the ambulance guys told me to get in the lift and they would wait for the next lift with dad.
As I stepped in the lift, the woman with the patient said to me “You may wish to wait for another lift as this gentleman is Covid positive”. Just at that moment as I stepped out of the lift I looked at the gentleman in the wheelchair and noticed that his mask was balanced on his top lip. I said to him “Your mask should be covering the whole of your mouth and your nose”. I was totally shocked! The nurse/staff member then said “I know but it keeps slipping down”. I was so shocked to say anything else and the lift doors closed and off they went.
It was only afterwards that I realised that the hospital were allowing COVID positive patients to share the same lifts as other patients, like my 88 year old father, and visitors to the hospital.
The ambulance guys said that in other areas there were “Red” lifts and “Green” lifts to stop this type of thing, but apparently this doesn’t happen in my area!
I mean, the hospital were so particular that visitors wear the full PPE - which is totally the right thing to do, but now I think what the hell is the point when they’re shunting COVID positive patients around the hospital, mixing with other patients and visitors and not even ensuring their mask is covering their face!
I feel like making a complaint to the hospital but I have no idea who the staff member was. I deeply regret not asking her name or looking at her badge but I was so shocked at the time and it was over in minutes, so probably it’s pointless. I wouldn’t even know who to complain to tbh.

WWYD? Should I just let it go as I’ve no proof of this happening or would you make a complaint - or am I just over reacting?

OP posts:
TheVanguardSix · 09/10/2020 07:17

She made it very clear that you'd be sharing a lift with a COVID positive patient. Should have taken the stairs or waited for the next lift.
Still, I'd want to understand why, in your area, they're not following the 'red'/'green' lift procedure. That I'd want to know about! Presumably, as you entered the hospital, your temp was checked and you were wearing a mask yourself AND you were encouraged to take advantage of the hand sanitizer. So the number of COVID patients will mostly be limited to admitted patients and there's not a whole hell of a lot to be done about that.
And yes, the nurse disclosed he was COVID+ but aren't you glad she told you? I'd want to know. She could have kept quiet. She was honest with you. You had a right to know. The hospital isn't following the red/green lift protocol and that is not her fault. In fact, her way of mitigating risk is to outright inform people that someone in the lift has COVID. Good on her! I honestly can't see why you'd complain about her. She can't help it. And as for the guy's medical details being spouted to Joe Public, well, he does have a contagious novel virus that has a proven track record of killing people so... there's that.

Tomatoesneedtoripen · 09/10/2020 07:31

it is not rude to suggest you didnt hear properly Shock
assuming masks were being worn by the staff member and yourself it is hard to hear!

Tomatoesneedtoripen · 09/10/2020 07:39

dont make a complaint,
assuming you have got it off your chest now?

just concentrate on your father

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