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156 replies

PainyRuddles · 21/09/2020 11:49

The Daily Mail, has lost the plot, in decreeing that MadeForMums is in fact the UK's number one parenting site now, and not Mumsnet??

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8752859/Listen-Santa-Claus-toys-Christmas-2020-revealed.html

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ChelseaDaggers · 21/09/2020 19:33

Jeez it's so weird, I'm genuinely not willing to type the name of the Reddit board on here Confused

Dustyzest · 21/09/2020 19:51

The old parenting forum on hitched - which became the mumdrum - got folded into made for mums a few years back, but I don’t know if anyone used to use that here...

Tomorrowsanewday · 21/09/2020 19:53

@lifestooshort123

Might depend on how consistent the moderating is on their site. MN has been a minefield lately with certain posters being allowed free rein to rant/rave/goad while others are banned for next to nothing. *@PainyRuddles* - do you think these were the only 2 sites in the running for top dog? Surely not....
You have expressed my feelings exactly. I've only been here a few years, but lately I have noticed this too. There seems to be an aggressive, nasty element, who have arrived, demanding to be listened to and hound off any moderate posters or get them banned. Then they vanish off into the ether, a bit like their incriminating threads
Arsewell · 21/09/2020 20:25

Just had a look at Made for Mums. It's actually not bad! I did laugh at the article saying your feet can predict the sex of your baby, that was quite entertaining (in a weird way). It also helps new mums find information quickly and easily, which is good. It's a very different site to Mumsnet and you wouldn't use it for the same purposes so I doubt Mumsnet sees it as a major competitor at this stage.

Roussette · 21/09/2020 20:30

'there's a couple of posts from what I can see but not multiple, there's plenty of non MN related posts and yes it seems you can ignore annoying posters.'

A couple?!
Make that hundreds!

DivGirl · 21/09/2020 20:46

@Roussette

'there's a couple of posts from what I can see but not multiple, there's plenty of non MN related posts and yes it seems you can ignore annoying posters.'

A couple?!
Make that hundreds!

Why do you care? Just delete your bookmark for the other place and you'll never have to read another post moaning about MN again. Easy peasy.
QueenofAsgard · 21/09/2020 20:52

@Roussette

'there's a couple of posts from what I can see but not multiple, there's plenty of non MN related posts and yes it seems you can ignore annoying posters.'

A couple?!
Make that hundreds!

I meant threads. Which I think was quite obvious.

Why are you even looking anyway? Why are you so bothered? You seem a bit obsessed yourself tbh...

Roussette · 21/09/2020 20:54

I didn't start this stupid thread but I am on MN and commenting as I'm a forum member
Plus would YOU personally like to be posted about somewhere day in day out for weeks/months?
Doubt it.
Yes, it can be ignored, and I do, but every now and again you look and think get a fucking life, enjoy where you are posting and stop slagging off others

PainyRuddles · 21/09/2020 20:57

@Roussette

I didn't start this stupid thread but I am on MN and commenting as I'm a forum member Plus would YOU personally like to be posted about somewhere day in day out for weeks/months? Doubt it. Yes, it can be ignored, and I do, but every now and again you look and think get a fucking life, enjoy where you are posting and stop slagging off others
Did you MEAN to be so rude. If the thread isnt to your liking, why dont you just hide the damn thing and get on with your life instead of commenting.

Isnt that a novel idea?

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Roussette · 21/09/2020 21:03

Yes. I meant to be so rude.
Just so you know.
It's trolling from another site so it's a bit rich you telling me to get off here.
Why don't you go back to where you enjoy?

Badgerstmary · 21/09/2020 21:03

I just want to know what the other place is called . Anyone brave enough?

QueenofAsgard · 21/09/2020 21:06

Mums.Chat.

Badgerstmary · 21/09/2020 21:06

Thanks

PainyRuddles · 21/09/2020 21:11

@Roussette

Yes. I meant to be so rude. Just so you know. It's trolling from another site so it's a bit rich you telling me to get off here. Why don't you go back to where you enjoy?
I used to enjoy mumsnet thats the point, until it started turning into a place where people get jumped on for little more than starting a thread, or holding a differing opinion about celebrities.

You'd know plenty about that though, wouldnt you!

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Hokeywokey · 21/09/2020 21:12

@Roussette

Yes. I meant to be so rude. Just so you know. It's trolling from another site so it's a bit rich you telling me to get off here. Why don't you go back to where you enjoy?
If they enjoyed it that much they wouldn't have to troll MN for something to talk about.
Neacy · 21/09/2020 21:22

I go on the other site, always been nice to me, but then I only join in when I want to, if they want to make fun, let them go ahead.

Roussette, what have they written about you and what thread?, I don’t go on all threads, so have no idea, I think there is only one mumsnet thread, I maybe wrong though.

Roussette · 21/09/2020 21:24

@PainyRuddles
Oh yes. I agree. I know all about having a different opinion on here, been there, done that.

If MN is so awful, why are you here? Why not embrace where you are and just enjoy it?

I don't go on where you like to post and bang on about how awful it is.

QueenofAsgard · 21/09/2020 21:25

I think some people are so irritated by that site because they have no pull there. They can't report and get anything deleted. Just my opinion.

Hokeywokey · 21/09/2020 21:29

@QueenofAsgard

I think some people are so irritated by that site because they have no pull there. They can't report and get anything deleted. Just my opinion.
I don't think people care enough tbh. The only thing that irritates me is when you come on MN to troll and spam.
Roussette · 21/09/2020 21:31

@Neacy
Thanks for asking.
I'd be here all night if I tried to explain.

Why can't these different forums just co-exist?
Jump between the two, go on just one or the other if that's your thing, whatever suits, but these pathetic trolling threads are just designed to stir it up between posters and sites, what is the point?
Give it up!

QueenofAsgard · 21/09/2020 21:32

I'm not spamming. I've never mentioned that site on here before. Someone asked if anyone was "brave enough" to post it. Why does someone need to be brave to mention the name of another site? What might happen?

Certain posters do seem to care quite a bit though to be fair.

Roussette · 21/09/2020 21:34

'I don't think people care enough tbh. The only thing that irritates me is when you come on MN to troll and spam.'

Couldn't have said it better meself

Hokeywokey · 21/09/2020 21:34

I'm not sure why they think their trolling of MN is any different to the trolling of MN they like to point out over there.

Whatever floats their boat though.

Neacy · 21/09/2020 21:41

[quote Roussette]@Neacy
Thanks for asking.
I'd be here all night if I tried to explain.

Why can't these different forums just co-exist?
Jump between the two, go on just one or the other if that's your thing, whatever suits, but these pathetic trolling threads are just designed to stir it up between posters and sites, what is the point?
Give it up![/quote]
Thanks for replying, I very rarely post on either of these sites, if something catches my eye, I read but often don’t post.

We should be able to co-exist, but for some reason it hasn’t happened, it’s a shame, as these are 2 great sites for all mums and many others.

Roussette · 21/09/2020 21:49

Totally agree

Everyone needs different online sites at different times of their lives. Forums really shouldnt try and compete but should co-exist for the different needs of their members, which might mean being on more than one site, or just one...whatever suits.

I have fingers x'd this might happen but maybe I'm just naive Confused