Partner just pissed on the kitchen floor

[fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits]

We have a downstairs toilet, it was less than 3 steps away. He's fucking pissed on the kitchen floor. Now he's trying to sleep on the sofa while I pacify his daughter (who ou love dearly!) because he put her to bed at 5.

Keep getting "why you being mardy"

"Babe what's up"

"Why you being off with me?"

Well perhaps it's because I'm parenting tour child while you claim exhaustion b the sofa. And to think this moron is begging me to have a baby with him 😂 give me strength!!!!!!!!!!

give me strength

I don't think you need strength so much as to throw him back and get yourself a decent human being for a partner.

She now won't settle for her dad, just me

Well, isn't that convenient for him. Please don't waste your life on this looser. Get him out of your house and out of your life.

For your children's sake, if not god your own.

Ignoring the point of the thread...

Some people when pissed will pretty much sleepwalk and piss... anywhere they believe is the toilet.

My alcoholic mother did it.

One of my friends would do it, not an alcoholic, nice guy (he's a respected GP now), but it did get to a point when we were all young that no one would stay in a room with him after a night out as you'd pretty much guarantee he'd piss on you, the floor, or his or your stuff.

That limited it a bit as he'd drink less when out with friends staying over, but it only really got better after he had a big neurological event and brain surgery.

Some folk genuinely can't help it.

Op has left the building

Use his favourite item of clothing to mop up, then toss it.

I was going to say if it was a one off after lockdown cabin fever I’d let it go, but since reading all the comments I’m disgusted. You’re an enabler OP and you’re damaging your children as much as he is. I grew up in a toxic home like this and my mum didn’t protect her children, we’re all mentally damaged because of this yet she acts the victim and plays down our suffering.
Stop thinking about yourself and convenience, definitely don’t bring a baby into this shit show, leave the prick and protect your children before they suffer at the hands of your selfish choice to stay.
If you were trapped and had no way out id understand why you’re dragging your heels, but from previous posts it’s your house? So kick him out, Change the locks and tell step daughters mum what is going on so he can’t damage her too. I’d rather be single forever than have the blood on my hands that I’d allowed my children’s childhood to be ruined by an aggressive, alcoholic boyfriend.

So... why are you doing this?

And yet, you stay with him.

He got so intoxicated he urinated in kitchen,& palmed daughter off to you the girlfriend
Frankly he’s a poor boyfriend and a poor dad. I’d be telling the child’s mum
I couldn’t be in a relationship with never mind consider having a baby with a feckless drunk
The mother of his kid probably didn’t know he was a feckless drunk. You have prior warning no I would not recommend having baby with this man

Sounds like you’re just venting and will just stay with this twat. 🤷‍♀️ I doubt OP will be back.

Why on earth are you still with this loser? No-one is that desperate surely?

And for goodness sake, don't have a child with him!

If you were trapped and had no way out id understand why you’re dragging your heels, but from previous posts it’s your house? So kick him out, Change the locks and tell step daughters mum what is going on so he can’t damage her too. I’d rather be single forever than have the blood on my hands that I’d allowed my children’s childhood to be ruined by an aggressive, alcoholic boyfriend.

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This!

I found some other posts of OP's.

Now this is a sentence I never imagined myself writing, but pissing on the floor is the least of her problems. This man is horrible,

I don't understand how men become so pathetic

Usually because an even more pathetic woman will enable then to do so.

Don't you deserve better for yourself and more importantly your children?

@KatharinaRosalie

Yes I am actually shocked by the previous posts.

Sounds like there are a lot of issues here. He is abusive but I also think you Both May have some pretty major alcohol issues.

Sounds like a scumbag. That poor little girl being exposed to a father like that.

LTB

I must lead a very sheltered life but the only place I have ever read about people missing the toilet when drunk is mumsnet. And I’ve got drunk and been around other drunk people plenty 🤔

Are you in the UK OP? This must be the absolute last straw for you now.

I know someone who's partner used to shit himself when drunk where ever he was sitting.

Anyway I suspect you have no plans to leave this man and I just feel like you'll have kids with him anyway based on your updates. Sad but you're as angry as someone might be if they're partner forgot to cook dinner

God I’ve just read the other threads and it makes chilling reading

My friend's dh once lost control of his bowels, he was fast asleep and very pissed after an all day session, the smell woke her up.

They are still together.

I don't know why some people accept this treatment.

My husband falls asleep after one glass of anything, I have known of long term alcoholics near death have toilet issues but only on here have I heard of it happening normally

I've read your other thread about your partner, and tbh the pissing on the floor is the least of your problems. He has actually physically hurt you before. He is vile and you need to leave ASAP.

Don’t be stupid and fall pregnant by this man op.
He’s a fucking loser, but your losses and get out of this shitty relationship.

@Mellonsprite

God I’ve just read the other threads and it makes chilling reading

Yup. This man physically and sexually assaults her, burns her with a lighter, she moved him into her children’s home despite feeling “creeped out” by him, and she allows her 3 year old to share a bed with him.

Can only imagine what’s happening to that little girl.