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To ask - how many people have you had sex with?

467 replies

cannyladlike · 14/08/2020 22:26

I'm so intrigued to know what the average number is. I hope some of you won't mind responding.

I'll start. My number is 12

OP posts:
GidgetGirl · 15/08/2020 00:05
  1. I’m 35 years old and I just tried to count them for the first time in about ten years. I’m sure there’s a good few I’ve forgotten - the real number is probably closer to 50. I can’t remember the names of at least a quarter of them! Swedish guy, MASH guy, big dick guy, mattress guy, etc etc..
OhMsBeliever · 15/08/2020 00:06

I'm 44.

MagentaADomestic · 15/08/2020 00:06

Around 30

SisterAgatha · 15/08/2020 00:07

11 and I regret it’s not more.

Bugslydoo · 15/08/2020 00:08

1, I’m 37, met my hubs when I was 16 and have only slept with him! Never wanted anyone else ☺️

Adelais · 15/08/2020 00:09

5

weegiemum · 15/08/2020 00:12

I've been married to him for 25 years now.

Daisy12Maisie · 15/08/2020 00:12

7 this year. Lost count of how many before that.

DressingGownofDoom · 15/08/2020 00:15

I can remember 9 but I'm convinced I'm missing somebody.

Does it count if it was crap enough not to remember Grin

Bellabelloo · 15/08/2020 00:15

Over 50. Quite envious of those who fell in love and married their first!

Elephanttrunk · 15/08/2020 00:24

14

Margotshypotheticaldog · 15/08/2020 00:26

Similar to a pp, more than 50, fewer than 100. Mostly just because I wanted to. I have an addictive nature and very poor impulse control! Also most of those were between the age of 21-28ish. Definitely glad I didn't marry the first! I've had some really amazing mind blowing sex and some really absolutely average forgettable sex. Only one woman though, that's probably my only regret. I should definitely have explored that more.... I'm too old now, don't think my knees or my back could take it anymore.

WildOrchids67 · 15/08/2020 00:26

Four. And one more that I would have slept with, but biology had other ideas.....

AbbieFB · 15/08/2020 00:32

[Probably around 100, I stopped counting at around 60. Most were in my 20s, I enjoyed sex and the excitement of sleeping with a different person each week. I was probably a bit harsh as I rarely bothered to contact them again, I just didn't want to commit to one person]

Ditto. No regrets at all, I had an absolute blast in my 20s. I cannot imagine only experiencing sex with one person. I’ve got plenty of stories for the nursing home!

ladybirdsarelovely33 · 15/08/2020 00:32

@cannyladlike So OP this is your only post on MN and its on a Fri night. Are you male or female?
Why are you asking this?

Honeybeexo · 15/08/2020 00:41
  1. First was awful, he was a bastard. Second was a great guy.
DameHannahRelf · 15/08/2020 00:44

Around 15. If we're counting women, and oral, more like 20.

ToTheMoonAndBack78 · 15/08/2020 00:45

14 and I'm 42. Didn't pop until I was early 20's. Then I went rampant lol Blush Currently engaged and have been for years. Some On's in amongst it all and they where fun lol Wink

ArabellaRockerfella · 15/08/2020 00:46

1
Now find myself single at 48 and terrified of being intimate with anyone!! Blush

aquashiv · 15/08/2020 00:47

Absolutely no idea Grin

Porcupineinwaiting · 15/08/2020 00:47

4

PigglyWigglyWoo · 15/08/2020 00:49

1

feelingsomewhatlost · 15/08/2020 00:51

16, so far 😂

FieldsAndSun · 15/08/2020 00:53

7

ForestYeti · 15/08/2020 00:53

About 50 ish

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