To ask - how many people have you had sex with?

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I'm so intrigued to know what the average number is. I hope some of you won't mind responding.

I'll start. My number is 12

Those of you who have slept with lots do you just do it if you like the look of them or do you need an emotional connection

When I was younger I just enjoyed sex. Nowadays casual sex doesn't appeal to me at all, but I have no regrets as I enjoyed it at the time! Also probably nearly 3 figures.

Met DH 26yrs ago and been 100% faithful but pre him (late teen/early 20's) about 30ish others- all men (boys really!) Lots of ONS because I really enjoyed it! In fact me and DH started off of as a ONS and stayed together and that was that!

5

More than 10. I do still count it if it's oral sex rather than piv though

Not a scoobie. Circa 20? 25?

19

2

34

but that 19 does inc a few that arent piv

1

25. I’ve slept with 10 since June. Been separated for some time, it’s been bloody brilliant. Having so much fun! All very fit and gorgeous!

About 45. Then I met DH at 20 and settled down.
I was diagnosed at bipolar during the time that I seemed to be really enjoying seeing what was out there.

It depends how you count it. Mind you, I didn’t keep count.

6

First and only post OP?

Enough.

Probably around 100, I stopped counting at around 60. Most were in my 20s, I enjoyed sex and the excitement of sleeping with a different person each week. I was probably a bit harsh as I rarely bothered to contact them again, I just didn't want to commit to one person.

Since my 30s I've only slept with 5, most were longer term, I prefer the emotional connection now im older. Lust is still great though

About 120ish. I used to have lots of ONS, just cause I fancied a shag, the guy or girl was attractive, and I didn't want to be in a relationship. Apart from a pretty crap fuck last year with someone I got stupidly infatuated with (looking back I can see I was on a MH spiral and the infatuation was a symptom), I have been celibate for a few years. I can't be bothered to 'pull' anymore, I feel like I might have used up my sex drive 😂

30 ish. I met DH when I was 30. No regrets at all, his figure's about the same.

14/15. Most were boyfriends, some were more FWB. A couple I thought could be more but they clearly had something else in mind. I am not happy about how those ones treated me, however I dont regret them, it was fun at the time regardless of how it turned out.

1, met my dh when I was 19.

30-ish. Am in my early 40s, been with DH around 10 years (no other increase in that time, I hasten to add!)

Only 3. Quite happy after meeting my husband! No need for any more

4, but married almost 20 years so 3 before DH. Young and I thought a bit silly!

1. Been with DP since I was 16.