To ask - how many people have you had sex with?

[cannyladlike]

I'm so intrigued to know what the average number is. I hope some of you won't mind responding.

I'll start. My number is 12

1

About 30 but haven't kept count.

2, but messed around with quite a few more.
Wish I'd shagged em all tbh, life's too short!

1 - met my husband at 15 and I'm almost 50.

Think around 25-30

I mind responding.

No.19 happened last night....

This thread (and my age - 50 - and few wines... I got a notebook out and totted up)

The list would be v much longer if I wasn’t including just purely piv because I’ve been just as filthy with a ton more...)

No.19 was let’s just say worth the wait...

Far too many!! But I’m a crabby old 66 year old who enjoyed herself in her youth. These days, not so much ..... hey ho .....

Just over 50ish men and 1 woman

And been with only my Dh since I was 21

1. If I could turn the clock back and not bother with the first, I could. He was a nice guy but it was unexceptional. I married the second.

8 men 3 women
DH and I have been together 21 years
If I became single again I would be open to either men or women.

Just one, but that's including myself.

One, though with - erm - significant encounters with another 3 before that (I was paranoid about pregnancy and dealing with religious hangups, and as it turned out also suffered from vaginismus...)

Now 51. Sometimes think it would have been interesting to do things differently, but don't have any regrets.

20 ish. I'm 30 been with dp 11 years

Not that many more than 1000

Over 100 I'd say but couldn't say for sure

Goodness, I don't know! As some pp I had a wild time v late teens/early 20s, lots of one night stands, many entirely forgettable.
I've been completely monogamous for 11 years now though!
Probably about 50, maybe a few more, oh gosh I really don't know 😳

4 (i'm 30) I've been with my partner since teenage years with one separation 10 years ago, during which I slept with others. Then we got back together.

Tbh I did enjoy it and I am quite jealous of those who've had a bit more of an exciting time in the bedroom department! I have occasionally thought about what it would be like to have sex with someone else. Never actually would.

Just tried to count... around 24 men and 2 women. No regrets - no point! 😋

Too many .....maybe 70

Around 25

4

1. One long term relationship that started at end of 6th form, lasted long distance whilst at uni and a couple of years beyond that but ultimately failed when I grew up and he didn't. Commitment-phobe as it turned out...after more than 8 years! Been with number 2 for 14 years, married for 12.

18. 17 men and 1 woman

Stopped counting at 50!