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To ask - how many people have you had sex with?

467 replies

cannyladlike · 14/08/2020 22:26

I'm so intrigued to know what the average number is. I hope some of you won't mind responding.

I'll start. My number is 12

OP posts:
Namechangewffghh · 15/08/2020 17:33

6.5

It would be 7 but one was really nervous and gave up after 30 seconds lol

Witchcraftandhokum · 15/08/2020 17:35

30-odd

LordOfTheOnionRings · 15/08/2020 17:35

37

PenguindreamsofDraco · 15/08/2020 18:45

@IdblowJonSnow

PenguindreamsofDraco More than Diana, less than Madonna grin

Probably not less than madonna - she has actually said she's not that bothered about sex before!

Sorry, showing my age obviously. It's Andie McDowell's response to Hugh Grant in 4 Weddings.
LionessRoar · 15/08/2020 18:54

3

SciFiScream · 15/08/2020 19:07

I'm almost 43. I've been with my DH since 2002. My number is 28. Exactly the same as my DH's number! We're each other's 28th Grin

My serious ex boyfriend (before DH) was number 3. So between ex-bf and DH I worked my way through 24...in the space of 2 years! ShockBlush

speakout · 15/08/2020 19:10

I don't know exactly- I am quite old!

Why does it matter OP?

JaceLancs · 15/08/2020 19:14

Between 20 and 30
Can’t be bothered to count
I’m mid 50s

Urkiddingme · 15/08/2020 19:17

Over 150....and counting..im happily single in my early 40's and having fun x

hopsalong · 15/08/2020 19:25

About 15, I think, for PIV sex. More (incl. some women) for sex that I personally don't regard as full sex.

zukiecat · 15/08/2020 19:34

Two, I'm 53,

My ex husband, and a relationship 3 years after splitting with ex husband.

I regret the second one, and I know I will never regret not having a higher number.

BKCRMP · 15/08/2020 19:35

Probably 8 or 9

Leaannb · 15/08/2020 19:42

Only 1 and I'm in my 50s

loudev · 15/08/2020 19:44

About 13, I'm 31

Ishihtzuknot · 15/08/2020 19:51

3

Purpleartichoke · 15/08/2020 20:01

I’m mid 40s

2

Bigyellowsunshine · 15/08/2020 20:02

About 50 I think. I’m mid 40’s and recently found myself back in the dating game so expecting that number to increase.

PhilSwagielka · 15/08/2020 20:07

I'm embarrassed to admit this, but just 7, and the last one was in 2008. All men. I did have a girlfriend way back when but we didn't have a sexual relationship because I was on meds that killed my libido.

TorysSuckRevokeArticle50 · 15/08/2020 20:13

1, met my DH when I was 16, I'm 36 now.

Toothsil · 15/08/2020 20:14
  1. My ex fiance who I was with for 5 years, and DH.
Dontknowwhyidoit · 15/08/2020 20:16

12 and I'm Early 40's and been in a relationship since I was 28

Changednameforthisoneyeah · 15/08/2020 20:17

40something.

Livpool · 15/08/2020 20:22

6

IhaveaBigBum · 15/08/2020 20:26

Around 80.
I'm 37. Been in relationships for about 20 years and have a lot of fun inbetween Grin

I do need a connection to have sex but doesn't need to be love.

BBCONEANDTWO · 15/08/2020 20:26

Can't even remember now but quite a few!

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