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To ask - how many people have you had sex with?

467 replies

cannyladlike · 14/08/2020 22:26

I'm so intrigued to know what the average number is. I hope some of you won't mind responding.

I'll start. My number is 12

OP posts:
DownThePlath · 15/08/2020 10:32
  1. Had a short term relationship before DP and then met him when I was 18.
LolaGrace · 15/08/2020 10:35

3

leadvy · 15/08/2020 10:37
  1. I'm 29
leadvy · 15/08/2020 10:37

@RiteAid

8. 5 men and 3 women.
I read that as 8.5 men Grin
DisneyMillie · 15/08/2020 10:38

I’m not entirely sure - every time I try and work it out I realise I’ve missed some later and then forget until the next time! - between 20 and 30 I think

Ffsnosexallowed · 15/08/2020 10:38

In the past 25 years -1. Before that, somewhere between 20 and 30??

Fruityb · 15/08/2020 10:39
  1. I’m 38. However the first one was once and I was incredibly drunk and remember nothing. Bit bad really. The second only happened twice.
TwoZeroTwoZero · 15/08/2020 10:42

Less than 10.

Dexysmidnightstroller · 15/08/2020 10:47

Ummm, nearly 100 (aged 48, spent a long time single)

Waxonwaxoff0 · 15/08/2020 10:47

2 short term relationships in my teens. A one night stand also in my teens. Then my ex husband and after we divorced I had a FWB for a couple of years.

Kelcat9494 · 15/08/2020 10:47

6 guys, 2 girls and I'm 25 :)

Waxonwaxoff0 · 15/08/2020 10:48

I'm 30, forgot to add.

Nottherealslimshady · 15/08/2020 10:48
  1. I'm 25 and married to the 3rd 😁
Hotandknackered · 15/08/2020 10:51

5 including my partner. I'm 35 we got together when I was 19. So had about 4 years of being sexually active before we met. Part of me thinks I should have had more while I was able to. As I love him deeply and the thought of being with another person now is icky. But then the casual sex was never that great so....

HillyJilly · 15/08/2020 10:53

10 men and seven women.

MoistMolly · 15/08/2020 10:55

9 in total
7 men
2 girls
1 cup

Hotandknackered · 15/08/2020 10:56

I think from looking at the numbers it really depends how much of your life you have spent in a relationship. Like myself I'd hope in the 16 years I've been with my partner I wouldn't have just had 1 partner if single! So I'm not sure we can judge(or should anyway!)

MoiraRosesTransAtlanticDrawl · 15/08/2020 10:57

Over 100! Travelled and lived abroad formost of my late teens/20's/30's. I had a career not unlike a Formula 1 team where we would move countries every few weeks. Huge party scene.

AintNobodyHereButUsChickens · 15/08/2020 10:58

Not a clue tbh! I'd be curious to know but obviously there's not really any way of finding out now Grin

SerenDippitty · 15/08/2020 10:58
  1. I’m 59 and been married 30 years.
Change17 · 15/08/2020 10:59

@MoiraRosesTransAtlanticDrawl

Over 100! Travelled and lived abroad formost of my late teens/20's/30's. I had a career not unlike a Formula 1 team where we would move countries every few weeks. Huge party scene.
Now I’m intrigued to know what your career was/is! This is the absolute dream for me. At 28 I’ve so far lived in 4 countries not including the UK and already have itchy feet to move onto somewhere new after covid
SuperlativeScrubs · 15/08/2020 10:59

Into the 30s

QueenArseClangers · 15/08/2020 11:00

Not quite with it this morning so was wondering why everyone was going on about shagging The Office for National Statistics Grin

Pre second marriage about 120 ish? Been very happily married since my late twenties and now early 40s.

Zoecarter · 15/08/2020 11:01

Dunno tbh

Fallsballs · 15/08/2020 11:10

Why are you interested in how many people other people ride ? Genuinely interested. I don’t quite give a shit.

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