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AIBU?

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to be really bothered by a thread title, to complain about it & not be satisfied with the response?

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allhallows · 03/10/2007 09:24

Maybe gross blasphemy is acceptable in the UK these days. Maybe I'm too sensitive. Tell me what you think:

Regarding a certain thread title "oh my f*cking god". I complained about it to MN, saying it was unacceptable, especially as a thread title, where you can't avoid it. I asked that it be deleted. I'm not easily offended but this was beyond the pale for me. Here's the response I got from MN:

Hi there
Many thanks for bringing this to our attention.
We agree that this comment was in poor taste but we don't tend to delete on
those grounds because it would be really hard to know where to draw the line

  • what one person thinks is funny can be another person's sensitive spot and the truth is we don't think we should be the arbiters of what people should fine offensive and what they shouldn't. On the whole we think it's better to let the boards self police in these instances, as it's very rare that a tasteless comment is left unchallenged. Certainly in this case, it wasn't and the OP has apologised. Best wishes

I'm not satisfied that in this case it would be "really hard to know where to draw the line".

AIBU?

OP posts:
saltire · 04/10/2007 00:54

But Blu, if you're banned how come you're still here? or have I missed something

VeniVidiVickiQV · 04/10/2007 00:55

ditto saltire

xXxamyxXx · 04/10/2007 00:55

think she has ways and mean....cue xfiles type music

NappiesLaGore · 04/10/2007 09:16

what?? mass bannings? man, i think i must have missed the good bit.

personally i clicked on it early thinking 'ey up, theres something interesting going on here' only to find it was about a boring old spider. bit of a let down really and i didnt go back... more fool me byt he looks of things.

so, was it just a suspension, rather than all out expulsion? and are netmums/babyworld obligated to take you on if you get expelled from here?

edam · 04/10/2007 09:19

Oi, Blu, explain the bans! What happened?

Baffy · 04/10/2007 09:23

what edam said

SSSandy2 · 04/10/2007 09:29

YANBU

NappiesLaGore · 04/10/2007 09:33

we're waiting!

FrannyandZombie · 04/10/2007 09:40

bump for explanation

Baffy · 04/10/2007 09:44

and again

JustineMumsnet · 04/10/2007 09:53

It was an empty threat I'm afraid - only Blu took any notice and she was delighted (I'm used to that though - do your kids just roll their eyes every time you say "Right that's one less birthday present for you!"?) Hopefully I'll still get my Mohito off the Countess, though.

SSSandy2 · 04/10/2007 09:56

Liked the empty threat!

Baffy · 04/10/2007 09:57

justine

thanks for explaining!

edam · 04/10/2007 10:26

Oh, I see.

Can we have an MN time out zone where naughty posters are sent?

edam · 04/10/2007 10:27

Sorry, 'people whose behaviour is in appropriate'. Musn't say naughty, will give people a complex. Or summat.

edam · 04/10/2007 10:27

inappropriate, even

NappiesLaGore · 04/10/2007 10:27

hah, not even a temporary suspension. par-fe'tick.

um, had we better not brief the bar in advance to get plenty of fresh mojito ingredients in for the 1st? its sooooo annoying when they dont have any fresh mint. CD? are you listening?

Blu · 04/10/2007 10:48

They threatened me with NetMums Room 101 and I cracked under the pressure and agreed not to challenge the party line again, so I'm back.

Thank you all who campaigned on my behalf, tied yellow ribbons round trees, e mailed Amnesty International etc - it kept me going through the dark and scary times.

batters · 04/10/2007 11:02

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motherinferior · 04/10/2007 11:05

She's been seen cottaging as a chicken down our way too

batters · 04/10/2007 11:07

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Blu · 04/10/2007 11:36

You see how this defamation of character is allowed by some posters?

Ban them , Justine, ban them!

And I'll see you two later round the back of chicken cottage and in Lidl's car park...I'm not banned from the car park!

batters · 04/10/2007 11:45

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Blu · 04/10/2007 12:08

hah...and they ain't seen NUFFINK yet!

Blu · 04/10/2007 12:09

Was that you and your habit of testing the drinks before paying for them again? Tssschp.