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To be crying for DS1?

96 replies

Pizzapromotion · 03/08/2020 18:55

He's 19yo and took Alevels last summer.

He's been working for a fast food chain whilst trying to pusue his dream which involves a very demanding selection process by a government agency, which of course was suspended by the lockdown and now is being incredibly inefficient about restarting (lots of confusion over dates etc)

He spent a long time on furlough, was one of the first to volunteer to go back. Just before lockdown he'd been promised promotion and that didn't happen either. He's been back since late May and they've been delaying but he's finally heard that it will be this month.

Meantime DH, his dad has been diagnosed with cancer and whilst we have plenty of hope, the news is quite grave.

Through all of this DS has stayed positive and cheerful, he was a joy to have at home during his furlough (before the diagnosis).

Today, in receiving the first good news in ages, his imeadiate reaction was to announce he's treating us to a pizza delivery for tea....and I burst into tears.

OP posts:
mbosnz · 03/08/2020 18:58

You have a very darling boy there, a very special young man. I'm going to put it down to time of month, but I'm honestly a bit teary reading this.

Spinachfinger · 03/08/2020 18:59

Your son sounds wonderful. Be proud you have brought him up to be so thoughtful and kind and decent. I'd cry too Smile

Really sorry about your DH. Fingers crossed he will be okay Flowers

Isadora2007 · 03/08/2020 18:59

Oh bless him- you’ve clearly done a fabulous job with your lad. Enjoy your pizza and bask in the glory as it’s not easy to raise lovely adult children. 👏🏻

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 03/08/2020 19:00

Give him a big hug from me. Sounds like a wonderful young man and i truly wish you and all your family the best Flowers

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 03/08/2020 19:01

What a star. You've done a grand job there. Enjoy your pizza and try to sneak a cuddle if he'll let you 😍

BertieBassettsBits · 03/08/2020 19:05

That's so lovely

Straysocks · 03/08/2020 19:06

I'm also teary. Hug him. Lots.

ThePestoTwins · 03/08/2020 19:07

I really do wish you well For the future.
You’ve raised a lovely young man 🌟

Callipygion · 03/08/2020 19:15

What a lovely boy. Where do you live, I could introduce him to my lovely daughter! 😀

Thislittlelady · 03/08/2020 19:29

What a gentleman your son is. He is the product of your parenting you know. I get teary when my kids make me proud too!

Coldspringharbour · 03/08/2020 19:30

This really warmed my heart. It’s made me teary too @Straysocks. What a lovely lovely boy💙

Mulhollandmagoo · 03/08/2020 19:37

Awww wow 😢 what a lovely young lad!!! You should be so so proud of him, hope you all enjoy celebrating his good news with a lovely pizza

stayathomer · 03/08/2020 19:40

Yanbu op, bless himCakeFlowersBrewWine

PaperMonster · 03/08/2020 19:40

Oh bless, he sounds like a lovely young man xx

Serialcatmum · 03/08/2020 19:41

😭 what a good job you’ve done. You’ve got a good egg there x

Thisismytimetoshine · 03/08/2020 19:42

Bless him, he's a total credit to you.

Holothane · 03/08/2020 19:43

He sounds a darling hugs from me too.

MikeUniformMike · 03/08/2020 19:44

I'm welling up. What a smashing young man.

sarahC40 · 03/08/2020 19:45

Sounds like a great kid. Best wishes to your family, op.

Juneboon · 03/08/2020 19:45

What a lovely young man Smile

Mummy1232016 · 03/08/2020 19:47

Just to echo everyone else here, sorry to hear you have all been having a tough time but your son sounds incredibly wonderful, hard working And how we all wish to be able to write about our children what a wonderful mum you must be x

OhioOhioOhio · 03/08/2020 19:47

What a gentleman.

Blanca87 · 03/08/2020 19:48

Be proud you are the parents of this special human. 💖

tmh88 · 03/08/2020 19:48

Lovely young man! Enjoy your pizza Flowers

outwiththeoldforgood · 03/08/2020 19:50

What a star. I don't know many 19 year olds that would do that..good job, OPThanks