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DumplingsAndStew · 02/07/2020 08:56

Please read and keep this thread active if possible.

www.nuh.nhs.uk/latest-news/for-many-people-with-a-blood-cancer-a-stem-cell-donor-is-their-best-chance-of-survival-however-finding-a-matching-blood-stem-cell-donor-is-not-easy-4704

Amy desperately needs a donor within the next week or so. Are you eligible?

There are four main donor registries.You only need to register to oneas the information from all registers is collated when looking for a match.

  1. The DKMS Registry (age restriction is 18 to 55 years):www.dkms.org.uk/en/register-now
  1. The Anthony Nolan Registry (age restriction is 16 to 30 years):www.anthonynolan.org/8-ways-you-could-save-life/donate-your-stem-cells
  1. The Welsh Bone Marrow Registry (age restriction is 17 to 31 years):www.welsh-blood.org.uk/giving-blood/bone-marrow-donor-registry/
  1. The NHS British Bone Marrow Registry (eligibility determined when you attend to give a blood donation):www.bbmr.co.uk/joining-the-register/

Thank you ❤

OP posts:
Ugzbugz · 02/07/2020 14:05

Register on DMKS as to old for others

Sparticle · 02/07/2020 14:21

@scaevola thanks for clarifying that. My youngest is 7 so that's fine for me.

vintagesewingmachine · 02/07/2020 14:29

I am on DKMS register. Smile

bestbrowsintown · 02/07/2020 14:33

I'm not able to donate so just bumping

EachandEveryone · 02/07/2020 14:38

Ive registered. Is there a way to share it on facebook?

incognitomum · 02/07/2020 14:46

@EachandEveryone the DKMS have a Facebook page.

HansBanans · 02/07/2020 14:54

I've registered on DKMS now so hopefully get a swab kit in the next week or so 🤞🏻

localbunny · 02/07/2020 14:57

Just signed up for Anthony Nolan, had been meaning to do so for a while - thank you for the reminder Smile

Inkpaperstars · 02/07/2020 14:58

I am excluded on medical grounds but will spread the word.

WashYourFins · 02/07/2020 15:42

Just registered with the DKMS one. I've donated blood before but don't remember being asked about bone marrow/stem cell, just platelets.

Somanysocks · 02/07/2020 15:42

Just registered and bumping.

trevthecat · 02/07/2020 15:44

Already registered but giving you a bump. Good luck in your search

reinacorriendo · 02/07/2020 15:54

I’m already on DKMS

LastResorts · 02/07/2020 16:01

Thank you Op! Been meaning to register for a while, I’ve just registered. I hope Amy gets a match

Stanislas · 02/07/2020 16:17

I think if you are a perfect match they seem to wave the age and other factors. I donated twice,I was over 60 and had a child with jaundice due to Ao incompatibility if that has any relevance. So don't be discouraged by age. Though as you get older it isn't a piece of cake. And it's a hell of a blow if it doesn't work so I suspect that's why anyone with depression might not be encouraged.

Lyricallie · 02/07/2020 16:29

I signed up and posted it on my Instagram story and now my friend did too :)

Atinytrolley · 02/07/2020 16:31

Just registered now so should get a swab kit soon.

lakeswimmer · 02/07/2020 16:33

Already on DKMS but have given DS and DH a nudge to join.

Hoggleludo · 02/07/2020 16:53

I'm registered already

Chichz · 02/07/2020 16:58

Bump for you!

Am already on the Anthony Nolan list (interesting to read about the age) but am currently pregnant.

Super important for people to register with these groups. X

Duckduckduck123 · 02/07/2020 17:11

On the register and bumping for you 😊

Tulipstulips · 02/07/2020 17:13

I’m on the DKMS one but I know the director of one of the others in a work capacity, and he said realistically they prefer young healthy BMI men to use.

Princess28 · 02/07/2020 17:27

Just registered- thank you. I’d only seen the Anthony Nolan one before and that has an upper age limit of 30.

BustyBroke · 02/07/2020 17:30

I'm on the DKMS register and tried over and over and over again to change my address but they make it SO difficult that I just gave up in the end. Every time I see the key fob I do worry that I've matched someone and they aren't able to contact me but there's not really anything I can do.
I also think it's silly that you can't sign up to the NHS one unless you're eligible to give blood. I have a vitamin D deficiency so they won'y allow me to give blood. Seems crazy that someone might die if I'm a match but my low vitamin D rules me out.

agentnully · 02/07/2020 17:45

Can I register?

I've never been accepted to give blood as I'm a life-long anaemic.