Your analogue assumes (wrongly) that all white people start off at the same level. this is just untrue
I didn’t explain that very well, but I meant that I had had a small success getting a few men to grasp male privilege by way of that analogy. By NOT using the word privilege, but using something they instinctively understood. They had all experienced that moment in a game where you think you are playing on easy, but have accidentally switched to hard, and although it looks like the exact same game, they were just failing to get Anywhere,and couldn’t quite work out why.
That’s what their privilege looked like. At any decision point/ battle scene etc, it was just slightly easier for various hard to pinpoint reasons. And that cumulative effect means that you can finish the game. Or not.
The analogy fails on its arse if you try to apply anything deeper than that. I mentioned it more to show how people with privilege can get very defensive and hostile if you suggest they have a privilege but there can be other ways to explain it.
We are all playing the same game, as it were, but not everyone is playing the exact same version. And if you don’t don’t realise you are one of those people playing an easier version, through an accident of birth, then it can be hard to grasp why someone else who looks as successful as you has actually had it much harder.