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why take the piss out of names 'karen' and 'carol' is the new fad on mn ?

87 replies

recycledteenager24 · 18/06/2020 11:06

title says it all really, don't care if i am bu it's so disrespectful to people with these names. mn goes through this fads and a lot of sheep follow it's so stupid, i've just read another thread which reads 'don't go there carol' wtaf ?

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TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 18/06/2020 11:06

It's an internet thing.

Not a mumsnet thing.

TheFlis12345 · 18/06/2020 11:06

It’s not a mn thing, it’s across all social media.

TinyPigeon · 18/06/2020 11:07

Have you read much of the wider internet Carol?

ArriettyJones · 18/06/2020 11:08

It’s a dickishness thing.

As @TinyPigeon is demonstrating so beautifully for us.

ClosedDoors · 18/06/2020 11:08

Didn't it start on reddit?

ArriettyJones · 18/06/2020 11:09

@TheFlis12345

It’s not a mn thing, it’s across all social media.
That just sounds sheeplike.

MN used to be a slightly more intelligent environment than the internet as a whole.

There are lots of things it isn’t acceptable to say here that are common currency elsewhere.

SadSisters · 18/06/2020 11:10

It’s not really a mumsnet thing. It’s a wider phenomenon. ‘Karen’ has become shorthand for a caricature of the kind of person who behaves in a very entitled way without caring about the feelings or wellbeing of others. It is a shame for people called Karen, I’ve always thought, although I don’t object to the associated behaviour itself being called out.

There are various examples which go in and out of fashion. Simple Simon, Wendy, Tim-nice-but-dim, Becky, Sharon, Chad, etc. Always a shame for people bearing those names!

TopLipTash · 18/06/2020 11:11

Some MNers have been influenced by t'internet.

Not an MN thing.

bintang · 18/06/2020 11:11

I haven't seen anyone use 'Carol' until this thread. I don't even know anyone named Carol under 70!

It's not an MN thing, in fact I've seen far less of it on here than in other sites. (Possibly because a fair few posters will be called Karen Wink)

PuppyMonkey · 18/06/2020 11:11

I just saw the Carol one for the first time on a thread today OP. It's like people have realised using Karen is now seen as offensive so they've thought: "Oh well, we'll use Carol instead and that'll be ok." Hmm

ArriettyJones · 18/06/2020 11:13

Maybe @MNHQ would take a position if asked?

They delete classist words like c##v and disablist words like r####d and c####n routinely.

Misogynistic tropes seem jarring, considering.

EmeraldShamrock · 18/06/2020 11:19

It is an Internet thing. Whenever I see it here from pp's I automatically presume they're a dick-head.

recycledteenager24 · 18/06/2020 11:23

tiny i don't do any social media apart from mn as most of it according to reading about it on here is total shite, it just makes me think the person using the said names are complete twats.

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Haworthia · 18/06/2020 11:25

It’s the socially acceptable face of misogyny right now (and ageism, of course).

GinDrinker00 · 18/06/2020 11:28

It’s been happening for years. It’s a Internet thing. This also isn’t the first post about it.

TheCanterburyWhales · 18/06/2020 11:28

As others have said, it seems to be the current version of "Essex girl" etc.
It's awful. More so because it's used predominantly by women to feel superior over other women.

ScorpionQueen · 18/06/2020 11:28

It's awful and I judge anyone doing it as a bit of a twat, to be honest.

TheCanterburyWhales · 18/06/2020 11:29

What does it matter whether it's the first post about it or not?
There's no rule to say subjects can't be talked about again.
Unless you've a vested interest in them not being so, and obvs.

Ughmaybenot · 18/06/2020 11:30

How many more posts about this do we need to have?! No, people posting on Mumsnet generally and rightfully don’t like it.

recycledteenager24 · 18/06/2020 11:32

gin so what if this has been asked before ?

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peppapigisscottish · 18/06/2020 11:33

@ArriettyJones

It’s a dickishness thing.

As @TinyPigeon is demonstrating so beautifully for us.

Grin
CountFosco · 18/06/2020 11:52

Never seen anyone talk about 'Carol' and the majority of the comments I've seen about 'Karen' are criticising it for being misogynistic. I do spend a lot of time in FWR though.

Juno231 · 18/06/2020 11:54

It's been going on for ages if not years? There's the same for Sharon, Chad etc. catch up!

DomDoesWotHeWants · 18/06/2020 11:56

It was vaguely amusing when it started but became less so when it persisted.

A bit like the Wayne and Sharon jokes of the 80s.

namechangeindiana · 18/06/2020 11:58

Never seen anyone use Carol?