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AIBU to ask if there is any pain you have experienced..

712 replies

ChocolateQuiltedShitPig · 31/05/2020 23:56

That is worse than childbirth?

Just trying to ease my anxieties over giving birth, due this week!

I hate the unknown and not having a client what level of pain to expect. I know every labour is different but I cant sleep and thought I'd ask!

OP posts:
2bazookas · 01/06/2020 17:34

Passing a kidney stone was my worst pain ever. Much worse than labour.

In my teens I had painful periods. During the second ( pushing) stage of labour, my contraction pains were that same kind of pain, but stronger.

ItsNotAGameOfSubbuteoMatthew · 01/06/2020 17:38

Laser eye surgery. Either I'm super sensitive or not enough anesthetic drops were used. I have 2 children but would NEVER have laser eye surgery again.

Neverender · 01/06/2020 17:45

Corneal ulcer and a burn on my arm

Itsnotalwaysme · 01/06/2020 18:11

My labour was the most painful thing I had ever experienced until I had horrendous toothache a few years back.

I was a slobbery mess and bawled all weekend.

Remember - you get super painkillers when you are in labour

Perfectstorm12 · 01/06/2020 18:19

Labour was excrutiating, terrifying and overwhelming. But also the greatest events of my life. There was no running away from the sheer rollercoaster of emotions I felt, and the people in the room with me (staff) were 'all in', completely switched on and I felt completely held at a time when I felt my most vulnerable. It is insane, but wonderful. Just go with it and see what happens.

LST · 01/06/2020 18:21

I have arthritis. And I honestly would go through the end part of labour once a day for an hour than live with arthritis anymore

SummerHouse · 01/06/2020 18:28

Best days of my life. The pain was sort of addictive and almost enjoyable. I felt a massive rush of some kind of natural high after each contraction. I think I was near hallucinating as I kept imagining I was like princess on super Mario brothers getting a power up where she gets bigger and bigger and bigger. That was with gas and air. It was quite the ride!

Second birth I never got to the gas and air as I just never needed it.

A deep clean at the dentist was deffo worse

SummerHouse · 01/06/2020 18:29

Read 'birth skills' by JoJo Mundin!

redwinefine · 01/06/2020 18:31

No. I'd been given too much oxytocin and dilated 5 cm in less than 20 minutes. 6 contractions in 10 minutes. It was awful.

My sisters was 40 minutes, start to end. She said it was 'unpleasant' but she knew she'd get her baby at the end.

Everyone's different!

Leflic · 01/06/2020 18:33

Labour is weird because often you are excited, scared and pretty knacked with the aforementioned or cramping before it starts.And it all a bit undignified ( you lose that pretty early on to be fair).

And I was expecting vaginal pain rather than the feeling of your bottom exploding.It really is like shitting a pineapple.

SallyWD · 01/06/2020 18:33

I've had 2 painful experiences which were as bad as childbirth. Infected tooth pain was agony!! I couldn't function. Also I had surgery to remove an organ that was cancerous. The days following that surgery I was in excruciating pain. With child birth it's agony but it feels right - like the pain is a means to an end and it's a natural process. The pain that comes with an infected tooth or being sliced open and having organs removed feels so wrong and unnatural.

Splurgle · 01/06/2020 18:33

Torsion of melon sized ovarian cyst, horrendous pain.

Childbirth is painful but so rewarding and like a PP said, there is a lot of pain relief to choose from.

mineofuselessinformation · 01/06/2020 18:35

Shedding the lining of my gut due to a reaction to antibiotics. I thought I was dying.

Delbelleber · 01/06/2020 18:36

Dry socket after wisdom tooth removal. The blood clot that is supposed to form got washed away and exposed my jaw bone to the elements. Was horrendous and if it had been another body part other than my head I seriously would have considered hacking it off myself.

SkiingIsHeaven · 01/06/2020 18:38

Ulcerated corneas.

So painful. Couldn't open my eyes. Just curled up on the floor and cried because it was so painful.

EmeraldShamrock · 01/06/2020 18:41

Yes I shut a car door on my thumb, it was 24 hours before I went to a&e they screwed a little hole in my nail the relief.
I didn't find labor to painful I had an epidural on my first there was small complications so I'm glad I had it.
My 2nd DC no epidural and weirdly euphoric. Entonox is great.

FudgeBrownie2019 · 01/06/2020 18:41

Both labours were ok for me. Not painless, but the sort of pain you can really work through. The breathing techniques I learned helped, as did lots of yoga through pregnancy.

Breaking my femur halfway down an Italian mountain on a school ski trip, by far the worst pain I've ever felt. And one of the DC was 10lbs exactly.

majesticallyawkward · 01/06/2020 18:43

Cracked my coccyx once and that was worse... lasted way longer than childbirth too!

Also a really and ibs flare up where the pain was so bad I passed out. After loads of tests in a&e I was sent home but it was the single worst pain I've ever felt.

Honestly I've never thought the pain of labour was too bad, it was the tiredness that got me both times. More so with the second one as I'd been awake close to 36 hours when I hit the wall... then 6 hours later he was born.

IndieTara · 01/06/2020 18:46

Gallstone pain was excruciating as was trapped

ArgumentativeAardvaark · 01/06/2020 18:49

Haven’t read all the posts as I don’t have the stomach for it, but just to say that they won’t really help you as everyone is different eg there is someone saying laser eye surgery was excruciating whereas mine was 100% pain free.
What I can tell you re childbirth is that I read up on all the pain relief options at great length them wimped out and asked for an epidural fairly early on. Best decision I ever made. I have zero regrets about not experiencing “natural” childbirth and there were no complications.

namechangeX2 · 01/06/2020 18:50

Nope. 3children and every one of them hurt. Take the gas and air and more if you need it x

Littlewhitedove · 01/06/2020 18:51

Trigeminal neuralgia....it actually made me scream with pain. I have had two children and the pain of childbirth was nothing in comparison.

LittlePesto · 01/06/2020 18:51

The 2 days of my life before I got a route canal. I've given birth twice, two very different experiences, but neither felt as bad as the dental pain.

raspberrycordial · 01/06/2020 18:55

Agree with kidney stones. Childbirth pain is not that bad, it does bloody hurt but you will be fine. Also, just remember that when you get to the point where you think you can't do it, you're close.

LycraLovingLass · 01/06/2020 18:58

Dry socket. Worset pain i have ever felt in my life and I had DD with no pain relief at all (not through choice)

Honestly take whatever drugs you fancy, its a few hours of your life and so worth it.

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