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To be surprised to see a beach brawl in Kent?

155 replies

StirlingWork · 26/05/2020 09:06

Just seem it on the DM online ( I know I know) - I'm just surprised during these times of social distancing etc that this happened.
I've lived in Kent and can confirm we are all respectable, RP speaking, home counties residing respectable pillars of the community...

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StirlingWork · 27/05/2020 20:51

Aylesham = mining town

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MadameMarie · 27/05/2020 21:04

Kent people are salt of the earth, one of the few places in the UK where they'd give you the shirt off their back. Kent folk are the friendliest people in the country.

Doyouthinktheysaurus · 27/05/2020 21:12

Kent coast is lovely.

I am a massive fan of the slightly tacky English seaside resort and I absolutely loved Margate. It was also our last trip before lockdown so lots of happy memories.

Whitstable was chocolate box pretty but not really for me. I prefer my seaside a bit more rough and ready.

We will definitely return.

WildRosie · 27/05/2020 21:19

Fascinating. What is a DFL please ?

Lobsterquadrille2 · 27/05/2020 21:24

@OneOfTheGrundys which part do you call South T Wells?

Destroyedpeople · 27/05/2020 21:27

@wildrosie... a 'dfl' means 'down from London' and is a derogatory term for incomers from London in horrible towns like Lewes and so on.

MadameMarie · 27/05/2020 21:29

Kent coast is lovely.

The crown jewel of the UK. Yet the hordes from London descend on Southend and Brighton.

IndecentFeminist · 27/05/2020 21:35

Known as DFTs in my local town, Down From Towns.

WildRosie · 27/05/2020 21:38

Thankyou, destroyed.

IndecentFeminist · 27/05/2020 21:42

Did any other posters go to Kent College or either of the Langtons? Out of idle curiosity.

When I lived in Whitstable there was an oyster place, an independent cinema, a few pubs (some nice, some not so) but apart from that it was a very normal, functioning town. I spent all my youth on the beach, at the local sailing club near the harbour, not at all posh. I went back to visit some friends a few years back and it had a totally different vibe. I was definitely not cool enough, despite being born and bred 😂

Our old house went on the market recently for nigh on a million, tis bonkers.

Sparklfairy · 28/05/2020 16:10

@IndecentFeminist I went to one of those!

Whitstable annoys me, it's pokey, has too many pubs, and they're all expensive IPA craft beer whatever types to cater to the yuppies tourists when all I want is a quiet pint of my usual by the sea.

OldLace · 28/05/2020 20:00

@IndecentFeminist
I went to one of those too.
I also spent my childhood on the beach (tho not the sailing club)
and Whitstable was a normal town. Now it's all 'the Bubble' this and that:
I know what you mean about going back and 'not being cool enough'!

OneOfTheGrundys · 28/05/2020 20:14

High Street, village area, Warwick, Madeira Park, round the tennis club. Frant’s always been a stockbroker village. Cash central now. Nice for a visit.
(My mum moved out of the village recently having lived there for 30 years or so. House bought by two youngish city workers.)
We live in east Kent. Love it 😊

Lobsterquadrille2 · 28/05/2020 20:32

I've lived in the village for the last 17 years. I'm staying here while my mother is still alive and then most likely will move elsewhere. I'm not that keen on TW but came back to this country as a lone parent and had parents here.

OneOfTheGrundys · 28/05/2020 20:41

I worked at The Compasses @Lobsterquadrille2 as well as a cafe in the high street and a shop.

The village is still really pretty but so different to how it was when we were growing up. It was pretty shabby, charming too. It’s very Space NK now. Which I like a lot but isn’t my vibe as a place to live really. I hope Halls is still there.

OneOfTheGrundys · 28/05/2020 20:43

I do like the clothes shops in Whitstable but I always find it a bit narrow and stressful. It always seems very busy.

Lobsterquadrille2 · 28/05/2020 20:47

@OneOfTheGrundys I can see The Compasses from my bedroom window! I overlook The Grove. And yes, Halls is still there - I used to volunteer in the Oxfam book shop and we swapped quite a lot. I love the clothes shops in Whitstable too.

I don't suppose you were a TWGGS girl?

wonkytonkwoman · 28/05/2020 20:48

I learned to swim off Seasalter beach, went cockling there and then used to swim on summer evenings near West Beach where the original Spider Cafe sat, on the beach. It was bloody idyllic. Just an ordinary seaside town with a working harbour. The May sunsets are still a glorious and almost spiritual experience.

I never really got the whole 'Bubble' thing, my first house I bought there for £65,000 and it recently sold for £650,000 (I didn't own it then btw!). It's crazy.

Margate was the go-to for the funfair, and toffee apples and the fights between the mods and rockers. So exciting. How sad that Thanet has been neglected by government and business for so very long. That tiny slice of artsy where the Turner Gallery is, a stone's throw from where live the most vulnerable and impoverished people you could find.

I have/had nothing against people coming to visit for the day to Whitstable - but I really resented the amounts of illegal parking of huge 4x4s on the tiny streets (since it seemed such folk weren't concerned about paying a parking fine), the mess, terrible mess, that was often left in the public spaces. It wasn't pleasant at times, walking by the beach after a Saturday night, and finding the remnants of someones discarded meat cartons, bbqs and drink cans, dirty nappies, sainsburys bags full of rubbish because the bins were overflowing and people just thought it was ok to leave it there rather than take it home.

OneOfTheGrundys · 28/05/2020 20:50

No, not TWGGS for me!
It’s a lovely town, just too expensive for us now. Halls and Oxfam Books are great. I’m so pleased they’re still there!!

OneOfTheGrundys · 28/05/2020 20:52

@wonkytonkwoman my friend lives that way and said the beach was gross with glass and nappies etc this morning. Such a shame ☹️

wonkytonkwoman · 28/05/2020 20:52

@OneOfTheGrundys my best friend lives in Frant. Tis lovely there. She's not wealthy but I Frant does have that air about it, I must say.

OldLace · 28/05/2020 21:10

@wonkytonkwoman

YES! Lemonade ice lollies at the Red Spider Cafe! Bliss.
My Mother used to rent us a beach hut each summer (dont know why as we lived in Victoria St so could practically hear / see the sea!
Used to make a sweetie jar of picked onions, one of pickled eggs to last all holidays, and had crisps, mother's pride, a block of cheddar and a packet of digestives. A bottle of lemonade and a thermos of tea. And a lemonade ice from the Red Spider each day.

And We Were Happy :)

Ionacat · 28/05/2020 21:15

I’m a Kentish Maid. Some beautiful parts of Kent - lovely memories in the beach at Westgate and St Mary’s Bay. I grew up in a lovely village with such a lovely village atmosphere but unfortunately it was next to the compost heap of the Garden of England - Swanley. If any of you know Dartford and Swanley well and haven’t listened to Mark Steele’s in town - Dartford then find it on YouTube. I laughed so much I cried!

derxa · 28/05/2020 21:29

We used to live in Broadstairs in a lovely thirties house just next to Stone Bay. Happiest days of our lives.

1Morewineplease · 28/05/2020 21:54

I’ve lived in Kent for over twenty years.

Yes there are a few nice parts but , in the main , I think it’s rather drab.
It’s also interesting to note that when flicking through UK cottage holiday brochures , there’s usually only a couple of pages for Kent.

I find many people to be quite money, status and fashion oriented and not too friendly for the most part.

Give me the Midlands any time with regard to friendliness.