*I’ve a friend who had a row with her workplace about being publicly listed as staff on their website.
She decided to agree and within two days the ex turned up at the office*
I'm not surprised. An ex of mine went all stalkerish on me and would do things like turn up in the public gallery at council meetings he knew I would be at because it was my job. My employer was brilliant, work was reallocated so I did different meetings, I got a space in the secure underground car park, direct line deactivated so any outside calls had to come through the switchboard etc.
Ten years later I went ballistic when in a new job, the director stuck my name and photograph on the employer's website and FB page. She couldn't understand why I wasn't thrilled.
I felt uneasy when a friend was looking at pictures of an event we were both at and there were pics of me on the FB page of some stranger from the US who'd been a spectator there. It made me feel really uncomfortable, I found it sort of intrusive.
Maybe it's a control thing. I don't want info about me out there unless I know exactly what it is, who's using it, why and what for.