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AIBU?

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To not have a takeaway, roast dinner or dry up every week?

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Peanutbutterismyjam · 11/04/2020 11:39

I was talking to a good friend yesterday about Easter, especially with the current situation. She mentioned that she's gutted she can't have her usual lamb roast dinner this Easter. I said we had a dinner last weekend so doubt we'd have one for Easter. Conversation then extended into roast dinners every week come hell or high water, weekend takeaways and fry ups, etc.

She has a takeaway every Friday, cooked breakfast every Saturday and a roast dinner every single Sunday, even during a heatwave. Her family have been this way since she moved in with her partner. They now have two boys 9 and 7. Neither particularly enjoy a dinner but will eat meat and Yorkshires with gravy. They can afford a takeaway most weeks but aren't loaded. It works for them.

We, however, rarely eat these things. I don't enjoy greasy food first thing in the morning, it repeats on me. I will have eggs on toast occasionally. Takeaways are for days like Mother's/Father's Day, rare night off, celebrations. I like a dinner but not every week. I find it a huge faff, a good couple hours of cooking, lots of washing up, and all eaten in no time at all. I'd honestly rather have pasta for a quick/easy/lazy meal. To add, my children are still small. My 3 year old has a restricted diet (ASD) and doesn't touch meat or veg, the baby will. Neither like pancakes, despite a few attempts, I won't give them takeaways yet due to salt content. They will however, happily wolf down homemade pizzas, and peanut butter on toast instead of a fry up.

Light-hearted conversation but she was fascinated with the that we won't be having a roast dinner tomorrow. We are having roast chicken, homemade flatbreads, tzatziki, and, Greek salad with feta.

So, AIBU to not have takeaway, cooked breakfast or a roast dinner every week? Do any of you? Just curious.

OP posts:
MissBax · 15/04/2020 17:35

Mmm you're Mediterranean dish sounds way tastier! I grew up with my mum as a veggie and she never made traditional birtish meals, we had a lot of curries, meze, stews, pasta, flat breads etc so I almost never have a fry up or roast.
We do indulge in take aways far too often though.

peachypetite · 18/04/2020 14:53

Don’t think OP is coming back

Busymum45 · 18/04/2020 14:57

Pre lockdown we have a takeaway every other weekend, roast about once a month, cooked breakfast once every 2 wks maybe !

MigginsMs · 18/04/2020 15:02

Did I miss why she couldn’t have a lamb roast dinner last weekend? We had one. Shops were still selling all the ingredients for one

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