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AIBU?

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To not have a takeaway, roast dinner or dry up every week?

329 replies

Peanutbutterismyjam · 11/04/2020 11:39

I was talking to a good friend yesterday about Easter, especially with the current situation. She mentioned that she's gutted she can't have her usual lamb roast dinner this Easter. I said we had a dinner last weekend so doubt we'd have one for Easter. Conversation then extended into roast dinners every week come hell or high water, weekend takeaways and fry ups, etc.

She has a takeaway every Friday, cooked breakfast every Saturday and a roast dinner every single Sunday, even during a heatwave. Her family have been this way since she moved in with her partner. They now have two boys 9 and 7. Neither particularly enjoy a dinner but will eat meat and Yorkshires with gravy. They can afford a takeaway most weeks but aren't loaded. It works for them.

We, however, rarely eat these things. I don't enjoy greasy food first thing in the morning, it repeats on me. I will have eggs on toast occasionally. Takeaways are for days like Mother's/Father's Day, rare night off, celebrations. I like a dinner but not every week. I find it a huge faff, a good couple hours of cooking, lots of washing up, and all eaten in no time at all. I'd honestly rather have pasta for a quick/easy/lazy meal. To add, my children are still small. My 3 year old has a restricted diet (ASD) and doesn't touch meat or veg, the baby will. Neither like pancakes, despite a few attempts, I won't give them takeaways yet due to salt content. They will however, happily wolf down homemade pizzas, and peanut butter on toast instead of a fry up.

Light-hearted conversation but she was fascinated with the that we won't be having a roast dinner tomorrow. We are having roast chicken, homemade flatbreads, tzatziki, and, Greek salad with feta.

So, AIBU to not have takeaway, cooked breakfast or a roast dinner every week? Do any of you? Just curious.

OP posts:
peachypetite · 11/04/2020 11:57

Why do you give a shit? Eat what you want. Nobody cares.

Herpesfreesince03 · 11/04/2020 11:57

Isn’t it amazing how different people like different things?

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 11/04/2020 11:57

People like different stuff, people eat differently- this isn’t news.

You don’t get a medal for not eating a takeaway or a roast dinner

LagunaBubbles · 11/04/2020 12:00

What's wrong with you you don't get that different people will eat different things? Or likely you do get it you just want to feel superior about your choices eh?

GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 11/04/2020 12:00

I wouldn’t have a fry up or a takeaway every week. We probably do have a roast most Sundays though and are having lamb tomorrow. Her diet doesn’t sounds unhealthy but isn’t it more about having nice treats in lockdown rather than every normal week?

GrumpyHoonMain · 11/04/2020 12:00

Everybody eats differently. I don’t like takeaways and prefer to cook from scratch everyday - my sister loves takeaways and still cooks from scratch everyday.

GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 11/04/2020 12:01

Does sound unhealthy I meant....

Morgan12 · 11/04/2020 12:02

I have a takeaway every Saturday.
We go to the inlaws for dinner on a Sunday. Its usually a roast but not always.

Fry ups about once a month.

Eat whatever you want.

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Queenoftheashes · 11/04/2020 12:03

Your friend knows how to live

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 11/04/2020 12:04

My mother finds it strange we don't have a roast every Sunday. We are actually having a roast soon... But on Wednesday. Simple reason.. when I did the food shopping earlier this week, I organised the meat into use by date order, and the beef has a longer date than the chicken fillets for curry or the mince for chilli.

Eat what you want when you want. Days of fish on Fridays and nearly everyone having Sunday off are gone now.

x2boys · 11/04/2020 12:04

Well err good for you I also have a child with autism with a restricted diet ,but he bloody loves a takeaway ,he also likes the crackling off roast pork and skin off roast chicken .

Tableclothing · 11/04/2020 12:04

we won't be having a roast dinner tomorrow.
We are having roast chicken,

Ok...

OlaEliza · 11/04/2020 12:04

We, however, rarely eat these things. I don't enjoy greasy food first thing in the morning, it repeats on me. I will have eggs on toast occasionally. Takeaways are for days like Mother's/Father's Day, rare night off, celebrations

Aren't you superior!?

Eat what you like and stop judging others 🙄

YippeeKayakOtherBuckets · 11/04/2020 12:05

We have a roast most Sundays. Roast Beef tomorrow.

Fry ups are occasional but I do love a fried egg sandwich so have that quite often.

Takeaways are a rare treat, maybe once a month if we’re flush. Two older teenagers, an 8yo two greedy adults means a curry costs at least £70, Chinese even more.

Waiting1987 · 11/04/2020 12:05

Your children are still very young so not surprised they don't care about roast dinners or takeaways. Might be different when you have teenagers.

marcopront · 11/04/2020 12:06

"we won't be having a roast dinner tomorrow. We are having roast chicken, homemade flatbreads, tzatziki, and, Greek salad with feta. "

What is a roast dinner, if having roast chicken plus sides isn't one?
You commented on having one in the heatwave, so I assumed your objection was to having the oven on but too will be as well.

FortunesFave · 11/04/2020 12:06

I also hate the phrase "repeats on me" it's FAR too descriptive.

But I don't think it sounds 'dirty'

Anyway OP....I love roast dinners...they're not hard or messy. I roast veggies during the week too. It's easy.

What's the hard work?

We have tonnes of veg in general and often make our own sauces midweek. So YABU for thinking it's too much work,

FortunesFave · 11/04/2020 12:07

What is a roast dinner, if having roast chicken plus sides isn't one?

It's a roast meat plus roast potatoes and a selection of other veg roasted or otherwise, plus gravy and maybe Yorkshires and other sides.

womanfromvenus · 11/04/2020 12:07

I’ve never really done ‘set’ meals. DH’s parents will always have something with fish on a Friday, bacon rolls on Saturday mornings, full roast dinner every Sunday without fail. I’ve never been able to stick to a proper menu it’s mainly what we fancied trying that week or what was in the cupboard.

OrangeCinnamon · 11/04/2020 12:10

What's your AIBU ? Did uou know that there is a topic called 'Chat' it also gets lots of traffic?

Oysterbabe · 11/04/2020 12:11

We have a roast every Sunday, bacon sandwiches or scrambled egg on toast after my long run and often, but not always, a takeaway after the kids are in bed on a Saturday. So I guess we're pretty similar to your friend.
A roast dinner is my kids' favourite meal and DD, who is 4, loves helping to peel the veg and mix the Yorkshire pudding batter. It's become a bit of a routine for our family. I don't find it any more bother than any other meal to prepare, apart from our takeaway of course.

PositiveVibez · 11/04/2020 12:12

What a strange thread.

GetUpAgain · 11/04/2020 12:12

Surely everyone knows that everyone else has different eating habits? How can this be a thing that causes wonderment?

I gave up chocolate for Lent, it has been hard. I reckon tomorrow I will eat nothing but chocolate.

HoffiCoffi13 · 11/04/2020 12:13

Haha my IL’s are a bit like this. They can’t seem to understand that we don’t have a roast on a Sunday, it’s unfathomable to them. Every Sunday evening they FaceTime and say ‘what was for lunch’ and we give some variation on ‘sandwiches’ or ‘chicken salad’ or ‘soup’ and they’re gobsmacked.
I guess it’s just how they were brought up. I’d have thought after 11 years of us not having a roast they’d be used to it though!

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