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AIBU?

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To not have a takeaway, roast dinner or dry up every week?

329 replies

Peanutbutterismyjam · 11/04/2020 11:39

I was talking to a good friend yesterday about Easter, especially with the current situation. She mentioned that she's gutted she can't have her usual lamb roast dinner this Easter. I said we had a dinner last weekend so doubt we'd have one for Easter. Conversation then extended into roast dinners every week come hell or high water, weekend takeaways and fry ups, etc.

She has a takeaway every Friday, cooked breakfast every Saturday and a roast dinner every single Sunday, even during a heatwave. Her family have been this way since she moved in with her partner. They now have two boys 9 and 7. Neither particularly enjoy a dinner but will eat meat and Yorkshires with gravy. They can afford a takeaway most weeks but aren't loaded. It works for them.

We, however, rarely eat these things. I don't enjoy greasy food first thing in the morning, it repeats on me. I will have eggs on toast occasionally. Takeaways are for days like Mother's/Father's Day, rare night off, celebrations. I like a dinner but not every week. I find it a huge faff, a good couple hours of cooking, lots of washing up, and all eaten in no time at all. I'd honestly rather have pasta for a quick/easy/lazy meal. To add, my children are still small. My 3 year old has a restricted diet (ASD) and doesn't touch meat or veg, the baby will. Neither like pancakes, despite a few attempts, I won't give them takeaways yet due to salt content. They will however, happily wolf down homemade pizzas, and peanut butter on toast instead of a fry up.

Light-hearted conversation but she was fascinated with the that we won't be having a roast dinner tomorrow. We are having roast chicken, homemade flatbreads, tzatziki, and, Greek salad with feta.

So, AIBU to not have takeaway, cooked breakfast or a roast dinner every week? Do any of you? Just curious.

OP posts:
LunchBoxPolice · 11/04/2020 15:33

What the utter fuck

Zombiemum1946 · 11/04/2020 15:33

We haven't had a regular routine for years due to fussy eaters. We no longer buy takeaways as they were getting very expensive and the kids are eating very little of it. We've never had a set routine of what to eat each night either. Enjoyment is just as important as nutrition.

Santaclauswhosthat · 11/04/2020 15:34

Yanbu and you are a free wheeling multicultural child of the universe while she is a staid unimaginative bore hidebound by tradition and unable to enjoy the lightness of life that you exhibit.

Her children will probably grow up to have feature walls and shrewish wives while yours will push the boundaries of endeavour to save us all from ourselves. One day we will all eat more tzatziki and fewer roast potatoes. You may say I'm a dreamer. But I'm not the only one. Flowers

SharonasCorona · 11/04/2020 15:41

I cringed for you OP as I read your post.

To not have a takeaway, roast dinner or dry up every week?
Queenoftheashes · 11/04/2020 15:42

...Your people will wear cardigans, and drink highballs.

LaMarschallin · 11/04/2020 15:49

Santaclauswhosthat
Smile

I did reflect that, on the downside, the OP managed to cram "homemade" twice into her post.

On the upside, she didn't use a capital H as so many do.

(See also "Qualified" before many job titles rather than "qualified". Or even just "job title")

happyandsingle · 11/04/2020 15:51

Does anyone really care?

SallyWD · 11/04/2020 15:55

Yes people eat differently. Didn't you know this?

catinb0oots · 11/04/2020 16:03

@Santaclauswhosthat

🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

Glitteryone · 11/04/2020 16:06

What an odd thread.

Why are you judging what your friend eats?

LaMarschallin · 11/04/2020 16:09

BuzzShitbagBobbly

frozen roast potato and parsnip and Yorkshire’s ready made mash and pre cut veg. Roast in the bag chicken.

That just sounds horrible. All of that processed food. So bad for you.

How the hell is frozen veg and a whole chicken "processed"? It's hardly a microwave kebab!
Smile

This reminds me of my SiL (it's always the SiL, isn't it?) who doesn't know much about food (BiL is an excellent cook) who proudly told me they "don't allow processed food in the house!".

Me: "But you have bacon and sausages and other cured meats...."

SiL: "Well, yes, but..."

Me: "...and cheese and breakfast cereal (but you'll only call it "granola") and bought jams and other preserves and frozen vegetables and canned pulses and...."

SiL: "Yes! Alright! But we don't get things like... like... umm... Pot Noodles! "

Nor do we, but I stopped there as there was a vein below her eye that looked on the point of popping...

(They would if she had to cook, betcha folding money)

pillowtalkey · 11/04/2020 16:22

We eat what we fancy.

pillowtalkey · 11/04/2020 16:23

Also if I have a takeaway I let my 2 year old have it too 😬

PrincessHoneysuckle · 11/04/2020 16:27

Defo looking down on your friend

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 11/04/2020 16:38

"we won't be having a roast dinner tomorrow. We are having roast chicken, homemade flatbreads, tzatziki, and, Greek salad with feta. "

Ooh get you with your homemade flatbreads and your so ever so continental ways

Have I stumbled into a modern day Abigail's Party?

Slith · 11/04/2020 16:50

I make a roast most weekends and I live by myself.

I0NA · 11/04/2020 17:01

@Santaclauswhosthat

Such a beautiful post! I am moved to tears Grin

ScarfLadysBag · 11/04/2020 17:04

Glad those flatbreads are homemade. What kind of scum doesn't make their own flatbread?

DDIJ · 11/04/2020 17:07

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Coulddowithanap · 11/04/2020 17:10

Why does it matter what other people are having for dinner ?

Dylaninthemovies1 · 11/04/2020 17:19

Not sure the point. Are you stealth boasting. I never have a fry up. Or a roast dinner. And takeaways are a rarity.

But I am still an unhealthy fat bastard who likes too much cheese, chocolate and cakes, and am massively overweight despite being a veggie for 25 years.

Samtsirch · 11/04/2020 17:27

I think we all have way too much time on our hands at the moment
and not enough to occupy our minds.😊
I’m just dying to know whether she is a tea drinker or does she favour coffee?
...and if tea, is she a milk in first kind of person?
🤣😂🤣

Strugglingtodomybest · 11/04/2020 17:27

@Santaclauswhosthat Grin

I've voted YABU, simply for posting this in AIBU.

On the subject of roasts, I used to find them a faff, but now I've done a few I've got the hang of the timings and now do mine whilst having a bath.

To whoever wrote upthread about the bug fry up... I honestly thought for a second that it was a stealth boast about how healthy you eat!

BuzzShitbagBobbly · 11/04/2020 17:30

Have I stumbled into a modern day Abigail's Party?

What's your opinion on Demis Roussos?

shineaflight · 11/04/2020 17:31

@Strugglingtodomybest

"I've got the hang of the timings and now do mine whilst having a bath."

Please just run us through this 😂 do you bathe in the kitchen sink?