Fuck it, I've joined. It looks a bit digital spy, but the functionality looks handy.
As long as it doesn't go all Tattle, I've looked in there from time to time and they did get cross a line quite often and I felt a bit grubby reading some of the nastiest stuff. But if it's a pleasant atmosphere then I'd welcome somewhere new.
This place has gotten very acidic. I'd never post asking for personal help here in a million years. You have to be made of strong stuff to look for help on here. I joined in 2014, and it really was a much safer space then and I got lots of baby support. But it has gotten quite bad now, theres no denying it. I can't imagine who would pay.