Do you go to bed at the same time?

[Gre8scott]

Just that do you in a couple go to bed at the same time?

Sometimes, if we're on similar working patterns but sometimes I'm tired and go to bed to read and DH status up for a bit, or I'm watching something and DH goes up first to read. We used to both be real night owls but a baby put paid to that

Nope. Dh goes up about 1.5 hours before me.

Yes always.

No very rarely ever! Infact the only times we have consistently gone to bed at the same time was when each of our DD’s were newborns! (And then that only lasted a couple weeks ) I am a morning person and he is a night owl, I’ll go to bed at 9-10 as we have a 4 month old that is ebf so I need my kip for the night feedings! Dp will come in 12-1. Fine by me, we have snuggles in the morning!

Yes.
If one of us wants to stay up late for some reason we’d sleep in the spare room

Yes, pretty much always. I might go up to bed half an hour earlier to read a book, but not often at all.

Yes every night for the last 13 years....other than maybe 2 where we’ve fallen out before bed

Yes. Almost always.

Nope, very rarely and if we do he will still always go to sleep after me. It really doesn't bother me

No, i usually go up first, but if dh is tired, or wants to watch a different tv programme, then he’ll go up. Sometimes we’ll go up together.

Almost always especially since we had to put the cats and dog to bed, they like their routine!

We have separate bedrooms.
I like an early night.
I have no idea when OH goes to bed.

I like to be in bed by 2130/2200. My husband stays up late (0030:0100) and if he wakes me, I'll be awake for a couple of hours while he drops off immediately

It's occasionally annoying as I'm an early riser; however, but when I was abroad for my dad's funeral last month, he said to ring him at any time - I was GMT -4 / and I did a couple couple of times when I was upset, and he was delighted to hear from me, so I'm not complaining [too much]

No never !, I go at 10 and he comes up at midnight if he doesn't fall sleep on the sofa

9/10 we go up to bed together at 10 but he falls asleep and I usually watch the news then newsnight in bed. He is an early bird and I'm a night owl so sometimes he'll go up and leave me to potter downstairs but most it's me catching up with the day in bed.

No pattern here - sometimes I go up first, sometimes he goes up first, sometimes we go up together.

We used to but my wife had treatment for cancer and now gets tired early. I mean she goes to bed at 6:30 or 7:00. I often go to be with her earlier then I want to as I'm not tired but it is nice to be together. Before cancer we always went at the same time.

Yes unless I need to work late for a deadline. I think it’s important for a couple of work schedules allow

Pretty much always do

The vast majority of the time we go together

Yes it’s quite important to our relationship to have that chill on the sofa then go to bed together as we don’t get a lot of time together during the day even on weekends.

Not on purpose. A lot of the time I try to go up earlier so that I can fall asleep before the snoring starts! He often gets interested in some shite film and stays up to watch it if he's not working the following day.

Yes, nearly always.

Yes and I love it and it’s currently 8.30!

Almost always although OH reads for ages whilst I manage a few pages then fall asleep. Occasionally if I'm unwell I'll head up first but feels a bit odd for us.
My ex H I always went to bed first & watched tv, he didn't come up till long after I was asleep - maybe that's part of why he became my ex lol