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Do you go to bed at the same time?

84 replies

Gre8scott · 07/04/2020 20:40

Just that do you in a couple go to bed at the same time?

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QuacksInTheDark · 08/04/2020 18:27

Depends on if we’re tired at the same time.

maa1992 · 08/04/2020 18:28

We work different patterns sometimes, when we are on the same patterns then yep!

FlamingoAndJohn · 08/04/2020 18:29

As a rule.
Sometimes I’ll go up early to read, but generally we go up together.

TokyoSushi · 08/04/2020 18:34

Very rarely, DH is up at 5 for work and I am a night owl so he goes much earlier than me.

Rosebel · 08/04/2020 18:37

We used to but my husband's snoring has got so bad I have to go up before him. We went to bed at the same last night and I didn't get to sleep until 6 in the morning as it was so bad. Normally we have cuddles,in the morning.

yelyah22 · 08/04/2020 18:40

About 2-3 days a week we go at the same time and we'll generally watch a series. But I need a solid 8 hours of sleep or I can't function, and depending on what he's doing workwise he needs much less, so I'm usually asleep by 11 and he usually either comes in about 1am or falls asleep on the sofa watching/reading something.

Littleshortcake · 08/04/2020 18:42

Yes always

Sparklyring · 08/04/2020 18:50

Every night without fail.

Arrowfanatic · 08/04/2020 20:18

Yes we almost always go up together between 9pm & 10pm.

He works early so goes to bed early and I like to be with him, even though insomnia stops me sleeping before midnight usually. Occasionally he or I will stay up whilst the other goes to bed but it's not often

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