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AIBU?

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854 replies

EstuaryBird · 03/04/2020 09:32

Admittedly it’s only on our local WhatsApp group...

Opened it this morning and there’s a message from a ‘founder’ member of the group.

“Me, hubs and the kids were out last night making lots of noise for our NHS heroes. Disappointed to see that some of this group don’t care enough to give up 2 minutes of their time!!! Maybe you forgot..(then a list of names including mine). Will be sending you a reminder next week!!”

I know she’s a twat but I’m fuming. I’m not going to dignify it with a reply because she and her little crew of followers love a public war. I’m just going to ignore her but if she thinks she’s forcing me out next week she’s got another bloody think coming.

Tbh if I wasn’t on lockdown I wouldn’t even give it 2 thoughts but I’m winding myself up about it now!

AIBU to think that clapping is not compulsory and nobody else’s business?

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Thelnebriati · 05/04/2020 15:36

This is the thread that keeps on giving.

LaMarschallin · 05/04/2020 15:49

Jesusisking

Surely Mrs Hubs cast the first stone?
As it were.
And, before pointing out the tiny speck in the OP's eye (if, indeed, there ever was one), should have removed the bloody great plank from her own.

In other (more childish, so better suited to me) words: she started it!

BiBiBirdie · 05/04/2020 16:07

@acatcalledjohn that's exactly it

She is getting her arse handed to her on a plate though
*Nonchalantly skips away pissing myself laughing, whilst eating a very nice barbecue chicken

TSSDNCOP · 05/04/2020 16:09

Jesus the ultimate kiss up.

PaulHollywoodsSexGut · 05/04/2020 16:10

@Jesusisking LOL

Noideareally2 · 05/04/2020 16:11

BiBi honestly, I think as a country we have carefully cultivated this level of stupid, we have not valued or demanded intelligent thought. Some people literally cannot think further than regurgitating whatever garbage the day's tabloid spews out. This is how an Orwellian state gains power. It is how Hitler's Germany came to be. Poverty and ignorance.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 05/04/2020 16:31

@EstuaryBird - you need to send her this!

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emilybrontescorsett · 05/04/2020 16:37

Brilliant SDTG

BiBiBirdie · 05/04/2020 16:39

@Noideareally2 that's exactly what I said to my DP earlier, did he think these people had become stupid as a result of lockdown or do we think they always were that stupid but behind closed doors and now they feel it's OK to unleash it on the world?

wibblewobblejiggle · 05/04/2020 16:41

If I were you I'd remember that there were companies that anonymously send glitter shit in the post to your door.
Don't go preaching that BS in real life.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 05/04/2020 16:41

To be honest, @emilybrontescorsett, I nicked it from FB.

wibblewobblejiggle · 05/04/2020 16:43

Apologies. My comment was to @Jesusisking

EstuaryBird · 05/04/2020 17:30

*@SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius. 😂😂😂😂😂

I think I might have to buy Mrs Clap a tin of tomatoes....if It wasn’t for her this thread wouldn’t exist....and it really is comedy gold. I love it Grin

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maddy68 · 05/04/2020 17:36

I'd reply by saying I helped the NHS by voting for them to be adequately resourced to endure they had decent pay and equipment that can save their lives. However. Continue to clap if it makes you feel better about your poor choices

Oliversmumsarmy · 05/04/2020 18:27

TealWater

I have been on threads saying that I would be interested in the antibody test as I am sure I and all my family had it over Christmas and New Year and been told that I was mistaking what we had for a cold or the flu and we couldn’t have had it as it was too early and Corona wasn’t in this country at that time.

Now it is being said that hospitals knew it was here in December/January making it all the more certain that a lot more people probably had the virus before it was acknowledged

Don’t forget it wasn’t till almost the last day in December did China admit there was a problem.

bluebluezoo · 05/04/2020 19:48

Sign up to this one:

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L4ur3n123 · 05/04/2020 21:25

Lol! I’d reply with a ‘no need for a reminder- thanks so much for thinking of us though, you guys sounded great last week 👍’

reiki21 · 05/04/2020 21:58

Would you feel bad if you turned up at the hospital unable to breathe and the people there thought you weren't worth their time and completely ignored you ? Is it so hard (are you so special or just unappreciative and rude?) to say thanks in a small way to people who really are putting theirs and their families lives on the line every day for you ? From the person answering the phone to the people turning up to transport you and yours to hospital to the nurses and doctors and porters getting you the help they hope will save your life because they have no other reason to be there. How thoughtless can you be ? I posted earlier mentioning my family who are front line. I didn't mention our police officer or A&E nurse/ nurse practitoner/ paramedic/delivery drivers and my own hubby who is a software engineer keeping our water clean and drinkable. He is often in the middle of nowhere in the worst weather. Like most silent essential workers in this country he just gets on with it expecting no thanks. It's his job. He's happy to do it. In a time like this when people are running for cover all of these essential workers are out there doing it. Don't be ungrateful. Don't be selfish. Help us to keep our families and your families alive. Stay home. Stay well and stay safe.

acatcalledjohn · 05/04/2020 22:38

Would you feel bad if you turned up at the hospital unable to breathe and the people there thought you weren't worth their time and completely ignored you?

Fucking hell. Talk about comparing apples to flamingos.

What difference does clapping really make?

user1490954378 · 05/04/2020 22:45

She's a knob. Delete the group.

user1490954378 · 05/04/2020 22:49

I've forgotten to do it every time so far, so I'm probably going to hell.

frillyfarmer · 05/04/2020 23:14

@reiki21 the standard mumsnet response of "are you on glue" seems appropriate here.

GabsAlot · 05/04/2020 23:32

Is reiki on the wrong thread

Cherrysoup · 05/04/2020 23:45

A family 4 doors down had a bbq today. There were no extra cars, I’m going make a leap and imagine they didn’t have guests, shocking! My dh cleaned and lit the bbq this week, it’s a huge egg thingy, it had mould on it, so he cleaned it by lighting it. Should I phone the police?!

Pondskimmer · 05/04/2020 23:45

@reiki21’s been smoking something more than Benson and Hedges.