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AIBU to plan on having a BBQ

439 replies

Numptydumptyfelloffthewall · 02/04/2020 12:58

Hi,

I've seen such conflicting advice and information on this lockdown that I'm starting to doubt my own judgement. I've tried to follow the lockdown to the letter. DH and I are working full time from home and i've been out once since lockdown for food shopping. We have 2 DC (4, 6) who are home and havent been out, they run around in the garden for exercise.

I have some BBQ coal in the shed and was wondering if it would be unreasonable/ wrong for DH, me and the 2 DC to have a BBQ on Sunday when the weather is predicted to be a bit nicer. We wouldnt need to buy any supplies or meet anyone else and it would really brighten a very stressed and difficult week but I dont want to be disrespectful or undermine the lockdown, esp as I have family both on the shielding list and working in the NHS, so I really understand how important it is to delay the spread of Covid 19.

We're in a standard 1930s 3 bed semi so we have a nice sized garden but not huge. If we do go ahead, should we go in if our neighbours also come into their garden? Or set up at the bottom of the garden? I usually keep the kids inside during the actual cooking as DD4 is asthmatic but they find eating BBQ food outside to be a huge novelty/ treat.

OP posts:
BigChocFrenzy · 03/04/2020 19:39

A BBQ in your own garden is fine,

so is a picnic in your own garden,

so is playing football etc in your own garden
......
so long as you don't invite anyone else who is outside your household

SinglePringle · 03/04/2020 19:39

I go out for a bike ride EVERY SINGLE DAY to a place where I might encounter ‘Others’.

Corona virus seems to have affected the critical thinking skills of a few people.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 03/04/2020 19:41

Walk to the corner shop. One trip, less risk.

This just gets better! How do you think we get to the the cornershop? Guess what, we walk!

mbosnz · 03/04/2020 19:41

Is 'hoiking of ze bosoms' on the list of approved exercise? Because some scunners must be looking like Gillian Michaels!

JKScot4 · 03/04/2020 19:42

@Deux
Dear God! You debauched hooligan you!!!

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 03/04/2020 19:43

Can you imagine how batshit some posters are going to be if this goes on for any length of time
Mind you the stupid is so strong with some I wonder if this has just magnified their utter twattsihness for the whole world to see

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 03/04/2020 19:44

I'm sitting here gettting pissed in a lovely bottle of white
I'm expecting a swat team to drop by any second

Deux · 03/04/2020 19:44

Yes I know! I even bought cheesecake too. Shock

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 03/04/2020 19:45

The police helicopter was circling at lunchtime. I was worried they were searching for me after I admitted having chocolate!

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 03/04/2020 19:46

I even had fish and chips
I'm on the he'll handcart

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 03/04/2020 19:46

Hell

katienana · 03/04/2020 19:53

I go out for a walk every day. Either with my kids or by myself. My husband does the same, so we all go out once a day. This is fine. If guidance changes we won't do it.

SparkyTheCat · 03/04/2020 20:08

Well @Rebootingagain (and a few others I could mention) today I went on a totally frivolous trip out to the hospital to have my latest miscarriage confirmed.

To compound matters I then ate (whisper this) crisps and chocolate, drank wine and had a pizza delivered.

So shoot me 🤷‍♀️🙄

glassseagulls · 03/04/2020 20:13

I have been hitting myself over the head with a cold kipper ever since

How dare you? That would feed a family for three weeks and you could make an educational game with the bones.

mbosnz · 03/04/2020 20:13

@SparkyTheCat

You have all you bloody want mate, and spades of it. I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish I could offer you a real, rather than a virtual Wine. That sucks.

glassseagulls · 03/04/2020 20:14

@SparkyTheCat Flowers Gin Chocolate Wine for you then.

Roussette · 03/04/2020 20:23

Sparky so sorry Flowers

Well.... Wine is making it all bearable tonight. But tomorrow I will roll around in the stinging nettles at the bottom of my wild garden before getting in a hot bath to make it worse. followed by a barbecue on Sunday

Topseyt · 03/04/2020 20:23

We have an Aldi plum pudding and cream for dessert tonight.

PoloMama · 03/04/2020 20:26

Ohh no, you can’t have a bbq.. how disrespectful.

Topseyt · 03/04/2020 20:27

I have also read the other day that alcohol sales have soared in the supermarkets. That will have the pearl clutchers on here going into overdrive!

Walkingtohealth · 03/04/2020 20:35

Alcohol sales are my responsibility....sorry Grin

Sipping wine as I type.

Forgot we chucked the old BBQ out when we had the garden done, seems I will have to cook indoors. Never mind we will eat in the garden

mbosnz · 03/04/2020 20:38

The pearl clutchers are often closet drinkers.

Rebootingagain · 03/04/2020 20:52

Are any of you actually watching the news now?

“Stay home, protect the NHS, Save lives”

Movement of people is down, new cases are still rising and will for a while.

Stay at home. Don’t go to the corner shop for milk or for a leisurely walk ffs

Roussette · 03/04/2020 20:54

Oh give it up Reboot

We are allowed to go for a walk. The END

Roussette · 03/04/2020 20:55

What does it matter to you anyway? You live on the Isle of Man. Hope your local government are doing what you want Hmm