I am being massively unreasonable at the moment I'm afraid.
I am introvert and when I don't get time alone I feel very, very cross. This is obviously not ideal during normal times but at the moment my DH is driving me crackers. He knows that I need time alone by the way so this is not news to him.
He is now working from home. I am a fee earner dealing with Wills at a firm of solicitors so I am still working as demand is very high at the moment for obvious reasons.
He is there when I wake up.
He talks incessantly about shit until I go to work.
If he isn't talking to me he is talking to the cat.
If he isn't doing that they he is constantly clearing his throat very loudly and saying he has a tickle in his throat - he doesn't. He does this all of the time and it drives me batshit.
He bangs cupboard doors all of the time.
He sings loudly.
Even when he goes upstairs he is banging around.
When I get home he starts yapping away as soon as I step through the door and basically doesn't stop until he fucks off to bed.
So last night I had had enough of the constant noise. I have just gone very quiet and praying he goes to bed so that I can have just an hour on my own to recharge for work the next day. He went to bed in a mood because I wasn't really saying a lot and being quiet.
This morning he stomped off upstairs telling me that it isn't his fault that he has to work from home. The thing is I know it's not his fault but him being there all of the bloody time is driving me slowly around the bend. He won't just let me have any time at all to be on my own. If I say anything he sulks.
He gets cabin fever but he is going for a bike ride every day after I go to work so that gets it out of his system.
I asked him this morning if he couldn't exercise would he feel agitated and stressed. He said yes, so I said well this is the same for me but I have a need to have some time on my own, rather than exercising. He said that that's different.
I might have all of the time in the world on my own soon as I may place him underneath the patio and end up in prison.
Would it be at all unreasonable to shout "shut the fuck up!" when he starts again tonight, which he absolutely will, as he doesn't like being told what he can and cannot do?