My ds occasionally plays with a neighbours child, I had spoken to the mother once or twice she knows I care for my mum who has a terminal illness & I run 2 houses. The ds knocks on my door and says their washer has broke & can I stick a wash on for them please, OK no problem.
The mother & son turn up with 4 huge bin bags, no washing powder or conditioner or any offer of electricity money, as a one off I think okay I'll do it, so did. When they'd knocked on I'd given the son a bar of chocolate, I then find the wrapper thrown in my garden and wait the next for them to collect the washing, no one turns up, the next day I get my ds to WhatsApp her son, it turns out she thought I was also going to drop it off at her house, I tell her she will have to come and collect it.
3 days later another knock on the door, just as the panic buying started, her ds please can you do some more washing, I explain there was quite a lot last time and it took me 5 hours to wash, but if it's only a bit I'll stick it in with mine. Mother and ds turn up again 3 huge bin bags. I say to her my mum has terminal lung disease and we're limiting contact as advised, and that her husband has a car and works, there's a launderette 5 minutes up the road, they both lie outright and say they haven't got a car, even though her ds sent my son a pic of all of them going for a drive in their new car the day before & it's parked outside their house. I then tell her we're self isolating as it's a risk to my mum and that I'm run off my feet at the moment so she will have to go the launderette. She pulls her face and storms off.
If it was just a bit I really wouldn't of minded but the cf just had no empathy or understanding of my situation.