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to think gangs of disaffected young adults are deliberately coughing on people?

84 replies

Charleypops · 24/03/2020 12:12

Because this happened to me yesterday. And I saw a post on Linkedin a few days prior where it had happened to someone else too. This is what happened to me;

I walked up the road on my own to go to my sons' house 5 mins away (they live with their dad, older child has cerebral palsy and needs care, I spend the days with them). Live in a not rough neighbourhood (not posh, but okay). A group of about 7 men and women in their early 20’s, carrying a speaker playing loud Grime walking towards me. Something a bit menacing about them, didn't move over a bit like you'd normally expect so I had to walk on edge of pavement. I thought I was just being paranoid because everything's so weird right now, but as I walked passed them one of the young men deliberately coughed towards me to the amusement of his friends.

I do hope this is not becoming a thing.

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Cherrysoup · 24/03/2020 12:14

Bunch of cunts. I sanctioned a child last week for stopping and very deliberately coughing over a lad already sitting. He turned to do it, he wasn’t already facing the other boy. I was really shocked at him.

GrumpyHoonMain · 24/03/2020 12:14

Disgusting yes but what part of not going to someone else’s house did you not understand from the address yesterday?

charleypops · 24/03/2020 12:18

Grumpy - I am a carer for my severely disabled 14 year old son. I go there every day. They are my family. It is the ONLY place I go to and live on my own

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Deux · 24/03/2020 12:23

FFS Grumpy (nominative determinism at its best), you need to read the guidance properly.

“Any medical need, to provide care .. “

Duchessofblandings · 24/03/2020 12:26

Senior police officer has been speaking about this on midday news.
Imagine charges of endangering life will come into play at some point soo .

JuanSheetIsPlenty · 24/03/2020 12:30

Yes the local police commented on this on their Fb page a couple of days ago.

Also- not just Young people in gangs. A bank cashier in a bank in town reported an angry customer doing it deliberately to them when they didn’t get the answer they wanted.

HarrietThePi · 24/03/2020 12:32

Disgusting. I had customers do this to me in the shop I worked in last week. Though I think it was rudeness and thoughtfulness rather than intentional.

AlexaCrowe · 24/03/2020 12:33

Yep, three blokes have been arrested for doing it and then (from what I can gather) hitting an elderly lady who objected to be coughed on.

Also read the other day about a man who was angry at not being able to buy loads of toilet rolls and spat or coughed on the cashier.

Also a pregnant woman posted on here about a man who coughed in her face.

finnmcool · 24/03/2020 12:35

Three teenagers were arrested after an elderly couple were allegedly coughed at in the street.

The couple were approached by three people in Hitchin, one of whom is said to have coughed in their faces.

A passer-by intervened and there was "an altercation" which left a woman in her 70s with a black eye, police said.

Three males aged 16, 18 and 19 were questioned on suspicion of actual bodily harm, affray and criminal damage after the incident on Friday afternoon.

Hertfordshire Police said the elderly woman was taken to hospital for a check-up and later discharged.

Her vehicle was also damaged in the incident in Paynes Park.

The man who intervened also suffered bruising, police said.

The suspects were questioned and released under investigation.

The force called for anyone with information to contact them and asked people not to post details of those they believe are involved or share footage on social media as it could hamper the investigation.

Soubriquet · 24/03/2020 12:35

Yep. They are doing it

It’s a joke to them or a way to get what they want

An idiot on a plane joked he had the virus, and him and his mates got kicked off the plane

PeterPanGoesWrong · 24/03/2020 12:38

I’d look them right in the eye and cough back at ‘em. I bet you can do a more menacing, contaminated sounding, evil cough.

tiredanddangerous · 24/03/2020 12:40

Yep. I was walking down the main road to collect dd2 from school one day last week and the passenger in a passing van leant out of his open window and coughed at me. Actual grown man.

EverydayLife · 24/03/2020 12:41

Yes I heard teenagers were doing it for a laugh in schools.

LittleChoCho · 24/03/2020 12:42

@GrumpyHoonMain So that's all you took from this? If you were caring for anyone in your family who was housebound or disabled would you just abandon them to their fate now? Disgusting is how I would describe your post.

Sallycinnamum · 24/03/2020 12:42

The person who intervened in the Hitchin attack was Tommy Robinson of all people. The film of it was widely circulated last week.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 24/03/2020 12:47

Interesting how it's all males being mentioned in these reports. I wonder if women are doing it too or whether this is a peculiarly male thing to do.

Whatever, it is disgusting and life threatening and people doing it should be prosecuted.

JuanSheetIsPlenty · 24/03/2020 12:48

I’d look them right in the eye and cough back at ‘em. I bet you can do a more menacing, contaminated sounding, evil cough.

To the three that assaulted the 70 year old woman, damaged her car and assaulted the man who tried to intervene? You think your cough would scare them?

ButterbuttSquash · 24/03/2020 12:50

Yes, almost exactly the same thing happened to me while pushing my 1 year old in her push chair up the road to get last minute groceries.

Sadly, I was disgusted and disappointed, but I wasn’t surprised.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 24/03/2020 12:53

And the bastards who spit Angry

Rubbing their faces in the pavement would be too good for them .

InglouriousBasterd · 24/03/2020 12:53

Heard on radio 4 earlier that police officers this morning have also been spat and coughed at by people they’re stopping.

JuanSheetIsPlenty · 24/03/2020 12:53

Utter scumbags.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 24/03/2020 12:56

Heard on radio 4 earlier that police officers this morning have also been spat and coughed at by people they’re stopping.

WTF? Why are people such absolute wankers? I just don't understand how this would enter anyone's mind.

Soubriquet · 24/03/2020 12:57

I’ve seen a picture of a woman licking airplane handles but so far that’s the only female I’ve seen doing something

RoryGillmoresEvilTwin · 24/03/2020 12:59

This happened to me last week. I was walking to get my son from school and a group of men purposefully walked closer to me and one of them coughed at me as a went past.

iheartislesofwight · 24/03/2020 13:02

this scum is probably the result of inbreeding.