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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think DH is over reacting?

105 replies

Washyour · 08/03/2020 10:47

We were watching a news story about a Whale that had been spotted somewhere it had no business being and then they turned to a young kid who had witnessed it and said something about “12 year old Max is worried”. They then went on to interview Max.

DH threw a cushion at the TV and told Max to shut up Hmm I told him to stop it so he shouted “fucking Max and his importance” Confused anyway he’s gone on about it ever since, keeps telling people about it (always exagurates it) and everytime something is on the news he shouts “but what would Max think??” And often throws a cushion. He won’t say why it’s annoyed him so much but won’t stop going on about it. AIBU to think ok it was a bit of an over reaction at the time and now he’s just being weird and should forget about it?

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ednatheevilwitch · 08/03/2020 10:50

This is quite an odd reaction. Does he shout and throw things around often?

TheFastandTheCurious · 08/03/2020 10:52

Erm.....what?!

AriadnesFilament · 08/03/2020 10:53

Is he quite well????

Winterwoollies · 08/03/2020 10:53

Um....that is really odd. All of it. I don’t really know what to say.

Iggly · 08/03/2020 10:54

What’s he really worried about.

So so bizarre

notanotherjigsawpiece · 08/03/2020 10:54

Throwing a cushion at the tv in anger about a child?! Makes him sound like a berk to be honest

Zaphodsotherhead · 08/03/2020 10:55

Sounds like the sort of thing that would happen in my family, where 'Fuck Max' would become a catchphrase that we'd all repeat at odd times and fall about laughing.

Is this the sort of family he's from, OP?

HaveAtEm · 08/03/2020 10:55

Completely bizarre reaction! He needs to get a grip!! Seriously OP...this is NOT normal behaviour!

Notimeforaname · 08/03/2020 10:55

Grin this sounds like me. Plenty annoys me about people on TV Grin

Was there not an element of comedy to it though ? Does he laugh at all when he's moaning about Max?
What would Max say about his mood? Wink

Iggly · 08/03/2020 10:56

If someone is so annoyed about a child and throwing a cushion and then keeps going on about it, I’d think WTF

Notimeforaname · 08/03/2020 10:57

Zaphods, it's aready becoming a catchphrase here. Grin

underfall · 08/03/2020 10:57

Why don’t you start saying it first? Smile

burnoutbabe · 08/03/2020 10:57

Seems normal to me, stupid news reporting, why would we care what max thinks over some say scientist etc?

Washyour · 08/03/2020 10:57

He laughed at first saying “well Max knows what he’s talking about to be fair” but now he just seems angry about it. Saying why does anyone give a fuck what Max thinks”

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Pipandmum · 08/03/2020 10:57

It has nothing to do with the tv and news story. Something else is going on and this is displacement. Have a think what might be really going on then try a broach it with him when he's calm.

Notimeforaname · 08/03/2020 10:59

"somthing else is going on" Grin

Zaphodsotherhead · 08/03/2020 11:00

Will nobody think of the whale??

Hopeisnotastrategy · 08/03/2020 11:05

I sympathise with him to a degree. The fashion for asking children and foetuses their opinions on sundry matters they know bugger all about in “serious”news programmes is utterly ridiculous.

Mycatismadeofstringcheese · 08/03/2020 11:05

Is he cross because he’s not being interviewed on TV and being asked to share his opinions?

DropYourSword · 08/03/2020 11:07

Was he actually angry. That’s exactly the kind of joke me or my husband would make.

Mycatismadeofstringcheese · 08/03/2020 11:08

That came out more sarcastic than I meant it. I’m wondering if there’s somewhere he’s not being heard (or belittled / ignored/talked over) and seeing a child being interviewed has brought up the anger about it.

SavoyCabbage · 08/03/2020 11:09

😂 I can't stop laughing. 'What would Max think?' And what would he think about the cushion throwing? So many questions.

JigsawsAreInPieces · 08/03/2020 11:10

I want to know more about the whale. Smile

Igotthemheavyboobs · 08/03/2020 11:12

I think it's quite funny too Grin

LagunaBubbles · 08/03/2020 11:14

Cushion throwing seems odd!