I didn't develop a make-up habit because stage make-up gave me horrible eczema around my eyes when I was 12. They were so sore, puffy and bleeding. Blinking hurt my eyelids. People often asked if I had a black eye. So in the teenage years after it cleared up, I only occasionally, sparingly did light make-up.
Later in the teenage years, I gained a scar next to my eye which interferes with getting a symmetrical line for eyeliner, so I never wear it. The more make-up I wear, the harder it is to get the symmetry right.
Bare-faced my skin is good, but foundations and powder draw attention to the roughness. (To me anyway 
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People get used to what they see. Most people I know wear make-up most of the time, so on the occasions that they don't, they do look different. Because I don't routinely wear it, no one notices. No one cares when I turn up post-run looking like a sweaty beetroot. No one's registered the scar, or being a bit assymetrical (most of the time I don't pay much attention because I don't spend much time close-up in a mirror)
Talk to your husband, tell him you've been wearing tinted moisturiser. You'll probably find that it's not nearly as bad to him as it feels to you. Get used to the feeling of being bare-faced at home. Try the tips from people with similar skin conditions, and the air on bare skin is likely to help anyway.