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To think the vet/RSPCA are BU and what do i do now?

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Chaosdragon · 02/03/2020 13:31

Saturday afternoon person knocks on the door to say that they have seen my cat staggering into the back garden and they think its been hit by a car as its dragging its legs. Me and DSs go and hunt for the cat which we find but it turns out not to be ours. Its quite clearly got cat flu or the like as has green snot running out of its eyes and its nose is completely caked over. It also doesn't seem able to stand.

I ring the vets to say can I take it in to be told they don't have a stray cat account and so to ring the RSPCA to get a log number so they can see it and the RSPCA will pay for it. Done and we take the cat in.

The good news is that theres nothing wrong with its back end, it seems to be staggering because its got an ear infection as well as the cat flu. Vet can't keep cat in surgery because there is noone there on the Sunday, so its agreed it will come home with me until Monday and I am given some medication to give it Sun night / monday morning.

Its the cutest little thing and mega friendly but its not eating or drinking and I ring the emergency vet sunday night to ask advice as medication is to be given on a full stomach. They say not to give one lot of the medication and ring my surgery first thing Monday as originally planned.

I ring my vet this morning and am basically told there is nothing they are willing can do. They can't have it at the surgery as they have healthy cats in and no isolation room. They won't see it or give it any more treatment as the cover vet on Saturday did a lot and bill is already £150 and she has only ever known RSPCA to pay up to £80 so they already won't get paid whole amount so cant do more. She knows local cat charities are full and it will be difficult for any of them to take cat it. Suggests I ring RSPCA

I ring RSPCA and am basically told to release the cat back where I found it as emergency treatment has been completed. I point out this likely means the cat will die and am basically politely told tough crap. After falling out with the call handler, it has been agreed that she will pass a message onto someone higher up the chain and see if there is anything else that can be done but am told that the policy with strays is emergency treatment only and then release.

AIBU to think both the vet and the RSPCA are utter jerks and what can I do with it now. I don't really have the funds for any expensive treatment for her, but I could pay to have her PTS rather than leave her to a long lingering death outside but that just seems grim.

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Rosspoldarkssaddle · 02/03/2020 22:14

Pdsa should be able to help.

Toddlerteaplease · 02/03/2020 22:39

When i asked the owner of the rescue I adopted my cats from.if she'd reported their former owner to the RSPCA she just laughed and said there was no point. 😬😡

Meadowland · 02/03/2020 22:40

This makes me so angry.
The RSPCA are one of the richest charities in the country, and time and time again they refuse to help.
If you currently donate to them, please consider switching to giving the animal charities which will help, especially PDSA and smaller charities.

skyblu · 02/03/2020 22:56

They are arseholes.....as is the cars owner (is it honestly definitely a stray? Sounds odd if it’s so friendly with you & accepting your help). Definitely not chipped?
Is there a a blue cross or a cat’s protection near you?
Or can you submit the cat to the RSPCA as a homeless/owner can’t look after it anymore case (instead of going at it from ‘its ill, can you just pay for it’ approach)?

This is so sad. Thank you for helping it and caring OP.

Meadowland · 02/03/2020 23:12

I have never known the RSPCA to help any animal in need.
Goodness knows what they do with the vast amounts of cash that is bequeathed to them in good faith.
Tragedy for this cat and all the others they won't help.

Doggyperson · 03/03/2020 06:57

Perhaps people need to start sharing on social media just how crap the RSPCA are! No other company would get away with it. Let's all name and shame.

RosemaryR · 03/03/2020 10:34

@Chaosdragon the standard system for stray cats referred to a vet with an RSPCA log number is that the National RSPCA pays for initial emergency treatment (mainly because they have a 24 hour control centre that can be contacted at any time of day) and the vet should contact the local RSPCA branch to ask if they can fund continuing treatment and/or take the cat for rehoming.

Vets tend to be confused by this second step so it may well be that your local branch would be able and willing to help if asked.

You should be able to find contact details for your local branch by going to www.rspca.org.uk and clicking the link "Your Local RSPCA" (at the top of the page) then searching using your postcode as the location.

The local branch may not be able to help (they might already be full or not have any isolation facilities) but it would be worth asking. Make sure you explain that this is not your own cat and that the original treatment was done via an RSPCA log number.

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 03/03/2020 10:48

How are you doing, OP? I feel over-invested in this story.

LaLaLandIsNoFun · 03/03/2020 11:20

Same, @Judystilldreamsofhorses

Hope she’s doing well this morning

Avocadohips · 03/03/2020 11:38

They probably get 100 of requests a year to help injured strays/wildlife and to reduce/waive fees if owners are struggling.

Every vet will have a policy on treating wildlife - most will do basic treatment for free.

They are something like the no.1 industry where people don't pay bills (for their own pets), though. People really don't appreciate how much it costs just to open the doors and provide treatment on demand, let alone to pay vets a fair wage and make any profit as a surgery.

The starting salary for many newly qualified vets is £18k. Many good vets leave the industry because the salaries working in (eg) pharmaceutical sales are much higher.

(It's a bugbear of mine when people say vets charge too much).

Anthia · 03/03/2020 11:55

Just adding my name to the list of people that think the RSPCA are a waste of space and deserve no donations or respect. I've heard far too many horror stories about them to ever guide them a penny and I can't believe anyone would nowadays.

Flutteringsatlast · 03/03/2020 12:37

Sounds like not much faith in RSPCA. I agree on most parts - I have reported abuse and neglect and no show. But...
a few years ago I passed a field of horses several times a week. Rang them 3 times with different issues and they showed within half an hour every time. Once assisted in the catching + removal of a foal left tethered by chain on our green.
Maybe op could contact a local newspaper? Support /donations or maybe find original owner...
Hoep dcat is showing signs of improvement today.

JillAmanda · 03/03/2020 14:51

To balance that story ^

I know of an occasion where the RSPCA refused to come out to see 5 skeletal horses in a bare field because “they were being fed”.

Yes - the owner was feeding them a SLICE of hay per week. Not a bale - a slice.

Of course the horses died one by one.

I repeat - the RSPCA do not. Give. A. Shit.

Intelinside57 · 03/03/2020 14:58

Here's my take on the RSPCA, sorry it's a DM link but they did an excellent job of publicising what happened. To summarise - well bred and some well known Arabian horses were rescued from scumbags. The Arab Horse Society and others were banging their doors down to take them in. Turns out they shot most of them, for stupid reasons like rainscald, or being hot to handle (for those that don't know, Arabs are highly strung horses and who wouldn't be in the circumstances?). RSPCA then lies... and lies...

katkit · 03/03/2020 15:08

I’ve not rtwf but there’s special tonnes food for Unwell cats that vets sell. It’s expensive but very appetising. She might like that. Good luck op!

Flutteringsatlast · 03/03/2020 15:09

I was once a volunteer and fostered kittens for them - dozens. . Over 20 years ago. Very saddened to read these negative comments...
Obviously I do believe each and every one. I just know how much time and effort I gave for free. Shame everyone doesn't share my enthusiasm..
What sad times.
Sad

thecatneuterer · 03/03/2020 15:51

@Flutteringsatlast Of course there are some wonderful volunteers and no doubt some wonderful staff that work there. However the organisation does nothing for stray or feral cats and gives appalling advice on the phone. I have more stories than I can count about the dreadful things they have done/advised.

They're great for prosecuting cruelty and campaigning. And a lucky few animals will be saved by them. But considering their profile and resources the amount they achieve is woeful, particularly compared to other charities that have so much less and yet do so much more and crucially, seem to care much more.

Meadowland · 03/03/2020 16:35

@thecatneuterer I couldn't agree more.
I phoned the RSPCA about an animal in clear distress.
They refused to help.
A very small local rescue centre with very little money came and rescued it straight away.
I also once asked the RSPCA if they could do anything to help a small charity which was having to close through lack of funds.
They were not interested.
And with all their reserves of cash. Disgrace.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 03/03/2020 17:41

Intelinside57

That is horrific!

You think they can't get any more callous, and then they prove they can.

Chaosdragon · 03/03/2020 18:11

For those asking. Shes doing OK. I gave her some metacam this morning as I managed to get about 1/4 of a pack of food down her, but when I've come home tonight from work shes obviously been sick at some point in the day. She also must have been for a wander round the room as shes been sick in the very far corner and then toileted in the other one!

I've taken her to the different vet and they have given her some fluid to hydrate her and a painkiller injection and told me not to worry about giving her any more metacam just concentrate on the antibiotics and getting food in her.

On the plus side she seems a lot brighter in herself, shes looking around more and sniffing at the food although still not voluntarily eating it. She has clear watery snot coming from her nose and mouth rather than yucky green snot and she greeted me with a meow when I got in today, which I am taking as a positive sign!

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stayathomer · 03/03/2020 18:12

Op fair dues to you on helping and best of luck Flowers

Fluffybutter · 03/03/2020 18:15

Great news that she seems a bit better . You’re doing a brilliant job

IceWings · 03/03/2020 18:17

OP you are an angel for taking in this poor little cat! If she needs further treatment could you set up a crowdfunding page to pay for it? I’m sure people would donate.

Murinae · 03/03/2020 18:33

I always got our cat a long lasting antibiotic injection. Did they not suggest one of those? It was much easier than getting tablets into a cat

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