Sorry! I agree I was harsh! I do apologise.
I think it's the shock as ever on what houses cost down south - not even in London.
I live in a Victorian four bed flat five minutes from the station and good restaurants and park etc, in a lovely market town in Yorkshire. I rent but I happen to know the landlord paid less than 100,000 for it. And that's quite normal.
It just must be so hard to live down there! I get recruiters (I'm in tech) constantly going on about roles in London and yes the money is a bit better, but honestly, not THAT much better. If I can earn ten grand a year more but my house costs seven hundred grand more, I don't see how it's enough.