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111/GP tomorrow/tell him to man up?

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NotYourHun · 20/02/2020 23:32

When I got home from work husband had pain in his lower right chest/upper abdomen and was struggling to breathe in properly. He kept telling me he was fine and he’d just got very cold on his cycle home from work (it’s about 45 mins-an hour in all weathers so not entirely inconceivable) and would be fine once he warmed up. I put it down to an intercostal muscle sprain or maybe a virus. Before bed I checked his temperature and it was 37.8 so again, I assumed viral infection. Kept telling me he was fine 🙄

We tried to get an early night at about 8.45 as we were both shattered. He’s been lying next to me with really laboured/irregular breathing, whimpering. He’s now got aching/pulsating hips/bum/legs. His temp is 38.3. He just asked me to check the colour of his legs ‘because they feel like they are rotting away’. I’m assuming he’s a bit feverish?! They look normal! I’ve given him some paracetamol but he’s point blank refusing to come out from under the duvet or take off his pjs. He was complaining that he hadn’t been able to poo today earlier (very unusual for him).

He’s an endurance athlete and used to a fresh kind of hell when it comes to suffering so I’m inclined to think whatever this is must be pretty awful to have floored him like this. I have no idea whether he’s about to drop down dead or if he’s being a bit dramatic.

OP posts:
Confuddledtown · 21/02/2020 05:51

Hope all is ok OP

speakout · 21/02/2020 06:01

Hope he is Ok.

DressingGownofDoom · 21/02/2020 06:06

What a worrying thread. I'm glad you asked for help here OP!

Randomness12 · 21/02/2020 06:08

I hope he’s ok OP?

PickleMyPepper · 21/02/2020 06:15

How is he OP?

frumpety · 21/02/2020 06:32

I assume you are at the hospital OP , at least I hope you are Flowers

CanIHaveATiaraPlease · 21/02/2020 06:38

How worrying for you op. Hope you are being seen & are at a&e.

OhTheRoses · 21/02/2020 06:52

News?

Minxmumma · 21/02/2020 06:54

How scary for you both. Hope he is getting some treatment

incognitomum · 21/02/2020 07:12

Any update?

Lockheart · 21/02/2020 07:13

News?

Hmm

I would assume she's looking after an unwell husband in one form or another and perhaps doesn't have time to come back and feed MN's appetite for juicy dramatic updates.

Sassenach85 · 21/02/2020 07:18

My friends uncle had almost exactly this and he actually died from sepsis, such a sad story. I hope u got him to hosp OP

Yabadee · 21/02/2020 07:18

Hope he is okay OP

Fairylea · 21/02/2020 07:21

How is he now op? Hope you managed to get some advice.

Haggisfish · 21/02/2020 07:23

Crikey he sounds dreadful. Hope you made it to a and e.

Heismyopendoor · 21/02/2020 07:24

Hope you are both ok OP

Apolloanddaphne · 21/02/2020 07:26

That sounds very worrying. I hope you are both at the hospital now and he is being helped.

ememem84 · 21/02/2020 07:27

Hope your ok op.

mrsjg · 21/02/2020 07:34

Any news?

WhatDoIDooDIoDtahW · 21/02/2020 07:34

Hope you’re both ok. I’m guessing they sent you straight to a&e. Let us know how you get on Flowers

LaLaLandIsNoFun · 21/02/2020 07:36

Just offering a hand hol OP, assuming you are in hospital whilst your dh is getting the right treatment.

Kelsoooo · 21/02/2020 07:38

I hope you fell to sleep and had a peaceful night OP?

LagunaBubbles · 21/02/2020 07:40

I hope you phoned 999.

KitKat1985 · 21/02/2020 07:41

Hope your DH is okay OP?

FeedMeChoc · 21/02/2020 07:44

I hope he’s ok. I’d have been very worried x

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