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To think the 90s was only the other day and dd should not think it's retro

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Fannia · 01/02/2020 21:11

The 60s is retro, right?

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Flopdrop · 02/02/2020 16:48

It's frightening how quickly time goes by but of course the 90s is retro.

Mooey89 · 02/02/2020 16:51

YANBU

The 90's were 10 years ago - the 80's were retro and cool like my mums wedding dress, the 80's were 20 years ago.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 02/02/2020 16:55

FlamingoAndJohn just here to make you all feel old. Grin

MrsSlocombesPussy · 02/02/2020 16:56

According to my DD, 15, I am too old to wear DMs, even though I was wearing them in the 90s.

For anyone who enjoys a bit of nostalgia I can recommend the box sets of documentaries on the Sky Arts Channel, called The Sixties , The Seventies etc. They are American, but really get the memories going. Each episode deals with a different aspect of life in that decade, such as TV, politics, music, changing social attitudes. My DD really enjoyed the 90s series.

Graphista · 02/02/2020 17:05

“I've now been divorced from him longer than I was married to him” same! Still got his name too!

@tothesea well exactly, my grandparents remembered seeing blackboard jungle at the cinema and they were already parents by that point.

I listen to absolute 80’s though as that was really my era, 90’s I was married and “settled down” (or so I thought! With hindsight I was being ridiculous as I was only in my 20’s! I did a weird thing of acting middle aged well before I was, when we split I “did” my 20’s in my 30’s - uni, clubbing...)

The thing that REALLY marks the difference between dds generation and older ones is they've never known a world pre 9/11 Sad

jaffaeclipse · 02/02/2020 17:09

The thing that REALLY marks the difference between dds generation and older ones is they've never known a world pre 9/11

It's the same for us except it was the Cold War. I've never known a world without nuclear weapons being standard.

Kolo · 02/02/2020 17:24

I've still got half my clothes from the 90s. I've been keeping hold of them till I lose a bit of weight and they fit me again. Probably still got a deep burgundy lipstick and some glitter from that time too in my make-up bag.

Kolo · 02/02/2020 17:32

I was in my staff room at work having lunch the other day with a group of colleagues, some were around my age (40s) and some in their 20s. We were talking about kids tv shows we grew up watching, and the youngsters were like, "we don't remember that"
Made me feel old because I remember being the young person, having chats like that with the older ones and I'm sure that was only 5 minutes ago!

I completely remember these conversations with 'old' people, desperate to tell me about the flowerpot men, about that puppet in a car and kids shows being in black and white and I was like "yawn". Now every time my kids put some newfangled thing on YouTube I insist on telling them all about when kids shows we're good - Hong Kong phoey, Mr Ben, dangermouse, cities of gold etc.

HaudMaDug · 02/02/2020 17:32

All my clothes are from the 90's as I don't think I've bought anything since then. My green velvet DMs are still an every day staple. My car is from the 90s.
It feels like yesterday that I was returning from Oasis at Loch Lomond. Those were the days. I'd love a repeat of 96.

Kolo · 02/02/2020 17:38

"I'd love a repeat of 96."

Not much I'd not give up to live through 96/97 again. Amazing times. I'd have to be that age again though. It was probably shit for 45 year olds.

theoriginalmadambee · 02/02/2020 17:43

Nooo don't listen to all those teenage trolls - the 90'ties were practically yesterday. BASTA!

HaudMaDug · 02/02/2020 19:47

@Kolo
I think the 45 year old me is still craving that sort of excitement.

TheMarzipanDildo · 02/02/2020 19:50

I was born in 1999. I turn 21 this year. Just sayin Wink

GraduationDilemma · 02/02/2020 19:53

Thirty years ago was 1990. i was born mid 70s. Thirty years before that was WW2 FFS. Not sure that helps really. #old

cptartapp · 02/02/2020 20:01

I turned 18 in 1990. Couldn't fit into my clubbing gear now but DH still has his old indie t shirts. Best decade ever.

Goawayquickly · 02/02/2020 20:11

I feel so much nostalgia for the 90’s, I was young, the country felt young somehow, the optimism of the late nineties, busy high streets full of shops, so many pubs too with music, football and food (food in pubs was a fairly new thing I recall and hadn’t been too common until then) suddenly it was Panini and chips everywhere 😀

My d likes 90’s music in my head the same way I liked 60’s music but the 90’s feels so recent.

Graphista · 02/02/2020 20:39

It's the same for us except it was the Cold War. I've never known a world without nuclear weapons being standard.

So true - but true of my parents too, my grandparents were the generation that predated that era in my family.

I definitely remember having conversations especially with my grans where they gently laughed me out of my teen arrogance in somehow stupidly thinking previous generations didn't understand or care about social issues, didn't have passions or make mistakes...

...both grans were pregnant when they married as were 3 of my great grans!

Over the years I learned that all my parents and grandparents had been active union members even being shop stewards some of them, all 4 grandparents served in wwii (as an early teen i thought only men had served), that they'd been on protest marches, started petitions and been active in picketing certain companies and shops for their treatment of women and ethnic minorities, given speeches and raised money for charities they strongly believed in, one relative was a conscientious objector, while another of the same generation we believe was a spy, they vanished without trace just before the end of that war and had always been very vague about their war role but had uniform and were stationed in places we now know to have been near or included intelligence units.

All too often youngsters forget or don't consider that they AREN'T the first to fall in love, have sex, feel injustices, have opinions and passions and beliefs that aren't necessarily in tune with the majority of society.

I'm not sure why this is, the arrogance of youth?

I remember watching a tv drama donkeys years ago with a scene which played this out - young teen grandchild "educating" their grandparent as to racism being a "bad thing" and the grandparent basically rolling eyes and giving it "what do you think we fought the war for? Why do you think we protested against Mosley and people like him? Just cos we're older doesn't mean we're stupid"

Vintagehearts · 02/02/2020 20:49

But the 60s were only 30 years ago? in my head

StealthPolarBear · 02/02/2020 21:02

What is the style or music of the 00s?
Whem asked how old I am I think 23 instantly then adjust up, anyone else?

StealthPolarBear · 02/02/2020 21:04

I know its a different context and culture but I can't believe Rosa parks sat on a bus while my dad was alive.
He's only in his 30s 40s 50s 60s.

userxx · 02/02/2020 21:05

@Kolo Yessssss, brilliant times. Sigh.

Graphista · 02/02/2020 21:24

Omg just checking the TV guide for the week... 90's people "This Life" on bbc4 from tomorrow night!

Nos123 · 02/02/2020 21:33

I was born in ‘97 and I’m made to feel old by people who were born post ‘00. Still, the 90s is retro and makes really cool outfits for raves- sorry.

Morgan · 02/02/2020 21:39

Graphista thank you - on record - I was a young lawyer in London when this was on so I loved it 😃

namechangingtime · 02/02/2020 21:40

I'm 19 and I'd say 90s are retro and 60s are vintage Blush