I said previously that people react to the term 'white privilege' because they don't feel as privileged as wealthy Asian people. Those who live in deprived seaside areas will hardly ever see a BAME person, so the picture they get is what they get from the media. (I come from such a place. I'm an exception as I grew up with African people in my home, and with BAME people coming to study English at my parents' language school, and I heard about the way immigration treated them at times.)
That's why people from those regions feel insulted at the term 'white privilege'. Saying that they have misunderstood the meaning doesn't work because they don't believe you. That's why it might be time to change your language, if you want to win them over to your side. Otherwise you won't win back the votes from those who abandoned Labour and voted in the Tory party. Which is surely what you really want. It's certainly what I would like to see happen.
I agree with you BTW about the amount of racism BAME people have to go through. And also about male privilege. But you're not convincing deprived white people in deprived areas who voted Boris Johnson in. It's very sad but it's a fact.
As for LF, I think it may be true that he's simply an idiot and not a racist. But it sounds from what posters on here have said on his Twitter feeds that he's also a prat. (I don't have any desire to read it so I don't know. To me he's just an actor who I watch regularly on ITV3.)