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To find the naked male body sexually repellent

192 replies

Sadiesunshine1 · 17/01/2020 12:23

Hi, I don’t mean to offend anyone and I’m not a lesbian. I can really fancy a man wearing nothing but pants - even Speedo’s - but when a man is actually entirely naked I just don’t like it. I don’t like the look of the penis. Anyone else?

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AmelieTaylor · 17/01/2020 22:50

Again I think some vulvas etc are pretty or attractive, but an episode if Embarrassing Bodies showed a wide variety and 😳some of them were as far from attractive/pretty as it’s possible to be.

willothewispa · 17/01/2020 22:50

It's not the most attractive of organs so YANBU.

Trexical · 17/01/2020 22:56

Yanbu at all ...even aesthetically pleasing models I've dated have looked better with their clothes on and in the summer when men go shirtless it can put me off my lunch ...but perhaps I'm too deep!

Pulpfiction1 · 17/01/2020 22:56

Have you been watching naked attraction too.

I started a thead like last week after watching about how rank cocks are.

SirChing · 17/01/2020 22:56

To be honest I think vaginas are absolutley disgusting. You would beat it if it climbed out from under a rock

GrinGrinGrin

HeadLikeAFuckinOrange · 17/01/2020 23:03

YANBU, because some hetero men feel quite the same as you- if social media and overheard conversations are anything to go by!

Including such joys as "She had a fanny like...

..a badly packed kebab"
..a punched lasagne"
..the Predator's face"
..a Hippo's yawn"

These are hetero men who openly admit they find some women's vulvas ugly, or untidy, or just unappealing.

Runbikeswim · 17/01/2020 23:07

I quite like them Confused

upaladderagain · 17/01/2020 23:13

I must be very odd. Love the sight of a happily standing cock, all pink and shine and so appetising. And the feel of a pair of .... Never mind, I'll probably get deleted but it's true. How can you have a great sex life and enjoy something you find repellent? Baffled.

2Rebecca · 17/01/2020 23:36

Naked attraction is depressing. I like pubic hair and don't get the love of the plucked chicken look, or all the tattoos and piercings. Y

moonsmarshmellow · 17/01/2020 23:46

I don’t find them ‘sexually repellent’ or disgusting... but at the same time I do not understand the whole ‘dick pics’ thing, are some women turned on by pictures of disembodied willies :/

moonsmarshmellow · 17/01/2020 23:47

I’ve always thought vaginas must be pretty terrifying for a man who is confronted with one for the very first time 😂

DuchessofWoke · 18/01/2020 00:06

Coincidentally, I’ve just seen Naked Attraction. I couldn’t hardly watch for cringing. How can they stand there being judged like that? I had to keep changing the channel (to Notting Hill, which was nice) but couldn’t resist flicking back for another look.

All those shaven willies!!!!!!!! Astonishing. And the close-ups of red, scratchy looking stubbly bits. Yuck!!!!!!!!

IAmNotAWitch · 18/01/2020 00:14

Mildy amusing rather than sexually repellent here. They look like an afterthought. Poor design.

I never understood the dick pic thing. I am old but I do work with younguns. When the dick pic thing was more common the girls would show them to one another and critique them harshly/have a laugh at the moron who sent it. Why do men send these? Bizarre.

Mayorquimby2 · 18/01/2020 00:21

Tbf

To find the naked male body sexually repellent
colouringinpro · 18/01/2020 00:34

Yanbu.

Straight woman who'd rather look at eyes, face and shoulders!

PrincessHoneysuckle · 18/01/2020 00:50

Dicks arent the most attractive body part but they have their uses Grin

PrincessHoneysuckle · 18/01/2020 00:54

Grin at "sad baby elephants trunk"

PrincessHoneysuckle · 18/01/2020 00:54

That was supposed to be a grin!

PatriciaBateman · 18/01/2020 04:19

I agree OP. I find the 'pantsed'-male form reasonably attractive, but naked male genitals = utterly repulsive, as in actually feel like vomiting!

I find both the naked female form and vulva/labia/vaginas absolutely beautiful despite plentiful online disparaging comments (often from men!).

However, the older I get, the less I believe I'm straight. I think I've just never allowed the realisation to properly consciously surface.

whatswithtodaytoday · 18/01/2020 04:30

Yanbu. I never fancy someone for their body, it has to come with a lovely face for me to be interested. Penises are not inherently attractive.

sandybanana · 18/01/2020 04:34

Never.
I love a naked male body. Always turns me on. 😁

slavetolife · 18/01/2020 04:43

Has anybody mentioned the saggy, turkey neck scrotum? I'm straight and married but there's something about a dangling set of swinging testicles that repulses me. I don't think penises are pretty but neither are vulvas, I'm a healthcare professional so see lots and lots of them, as people get older they get worse looking too! As my mum always said, it's the life inside that counts 😁

StarlightLady · 18/01/2020 06:48

@PatriciaBateman - Of course the vulvas are absolutely beautiful. Life can be fun as you go past the curious stage. 👭

WaterOffADucksCrack · 18/01/2020 10:36

As for female genitalia being attractive to look at....try giving birth vaginally more than once. It’s not selfie material, that’s for sure! See I think that's just as damaging as the "women's bodies are more attractive". "Oh all women's bodies/vaginas are ruined after childbirth" just makes it seem as though that's all we're for! Plus plenty of our vaginas look the same after, they're designed to stretch!!

TheABC · 18/01/2020 10:40

I am howling at some of the replies on here. I see an erect cock (on my partner!) as nature's way of giving me a thumbs up. I am clearly doing something right.

For those that are repelled...it could be worse. You could be a female cat.

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