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To find the naked male body sexually repellent

192 replies

Sadiesunshine1 · 17/01/2020 12:23

Hi, I don’t mean to offend anyone and I’m not a lesbian. I can really fancy a man wearing nothing but pants - even Speedo’s - but when a man is actually entirely naked I just don’t like it. I don’t like the look of the penis. Anyone else?

OP posts:
PapayaCoconut · 17/01/2020 20:44

@amusedbush

But that was exactly my point earlier. Men (and women like my mother, who have internalised every sexist 1950's trope) like to claim that the reason we're bombarded with images of women's bodies in various states of undress - but not men's - is that the female form is universally and objectively just "more beautiful". Sure, maybe this is true of you compare the idealised images of women we see everywhere with the average dude on the street. However, that's not compsring like for like. I don't think many people would claim that, say, Theresa May, would be any more aesthetically pleasing naked than Boris Johnson, for example. The average woman is no more alluring than the average man, but people don't even know what the average woman looks like because she's invisible in the public space.

PapayaCoconut · 17/01/2020 21:00

(Yes, I am a right laugh at parties!)

Davincitoad · 17/01/2020 21:03

Can’t say I look at a willy and think oh lovely Wink

Oblomov20 · 17/01/2020 21:03

The penis is quite ugly. Feet aren't that nice. No Fergie for me. Noses aren't beautiful. Ears aren't that great.
Best I don't work in any 'ear-nose-and-throat dept!

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 17/01/2020 21:07

What @P1nkHeartLovesCake said Grin

StarlightLady · 17/01/2020 21:07

I find both genders naked to be attractive.

Not that I find the penis pretty though. There is more to the naked form than focusing on one small(!) bit.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 17/01/2020 21:08

Just seen Papaya's post and got a mental image of Theresa May and Boris Johnson nekkid
Thanks for that!
Not
pass the brain bleach Grin

NightsOfCabiria · 17/01/2020 21:10

I cant think of a single time where Ive been with a man who got naked and Ive not been delighted by what Ive seen. Normally, a big grin spreads across my face. YABU. I really enjoy looking at a man’s tackle, especially if it's framed by a taught belly and chunky thighs.

and that line of hair from the belly button down.

LuluJakey1 · 17/01/2020 21:15

I wouldn't find just any man attractive naked but I definitely like DH naked.

Elieza · 17/01/2020 21:15

I just laughed out loud at some of these posts and scared the cat!

Yeah, I think some things are best left to the imagination. God knows I’m no oil painting either!! Grin

NightsOfCabiria · 17/01/2020 21:16

God yes! The shaving of male tackle needs to stop. It looks awful. Like those hairless cats.

phoenixrosehere · 17/01/2020 21:24

I agree. I’m married and love my husband and most of his body but the penis is unattractive and I don’t see why some men think many women like/want to see it (dick pics/flashing). Saying that I don’t mind nude male statues.

Mum2jenny · 17/01/2020 21:26

I do love men, but their tackle is generally ok.
If they want to shave it, it’s their choice, but I don’t like it. I prefer soft fur over spiky bits!!

ginforthewin4 · 17/01/2020 21:37

I think penis' are ok but as previous people have said it is really dependant on the whole package.

To be honest I think vaginas are absolutley disgusting. You would beat it if it climbed out from under a rock.
Vile.
So hats off to my partner who thankfully doesnt just focus on my vaginal appearance but on me as a whole person. Grin

EC22 · 17/01/2020 21:40

Sexually repellant?
Odd!
Do you have to keep your eyes firmly shut in the bedroom?
It might not be ones favourite thing, but sexually repellant. Nah!

Fallsballs · 17/01/2020 22:20

Not so much now, just wait until you see a middle aged guy get out of bed and his balls are hitting his knees. Like being in a fucking butchers.

MashedSpud · 17/01/2020 22:26

I enjoy seeing DH in the nude but then all his parts are very attractive.

ironicname · 17/01/2020 22:34

Penises are not very nice to look at. Females are so neat and tucked in, but all that flesh wobbling about makes me feel a bit sick.

Proseccoagain · 17/01/2020 22:38

My DH died two years ago and I'd give anything to see him naked again. And by the way it was all lovely!

Cryingoverspilttea · 17/01/2020 22:43

I beg to differ, some cocks can be bloody beautiful to look at, play with, do whatever with. Clearly I'm the odd one out as an attractive package is a deal breaker for me. Penis then personality 😁

Deadringer · 17/01/2020 22:43

A perky penis isn't too bad but balls? Ugh.

Cryingoverspilttea · 17/01/2020 22:44

@NightsOfCabiria rugby players are the best for that Crown Blush

Babynamechangerr · 17/01/2020 22:46

prosecco I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers

Treesthemovie · 17/01/2020 22:47

Sexually repellant? You are definitely a lesbian.

2Rebecca · 17/01/2020 22:50

No. A well toned male body is a thing of beauty. Flabby men with beer bellies are gross though. I think women look better naked with a bit of extra weight than men do as they can look curvy and sexy where as men can look like Mr Greedy

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