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To find the naked male body sexually repellent

192 replies

Sadiesunshine1 · 17/01/2020 12:23

Hi, I don’t mean to offend anyone and I’m not a lesbian. I can really fancy a man wearing nothing but pants - even Speedo’s - but when a man is actually entirely naked I just don’t like it. I don’t like the look of the penis. Anyone else?

OP posts:
Sadiee88 · 17/01/2020 13:30

Agree a penis isn’t pretty .... but sexually repellent is another level lol x

Cocobean30 · 17/01/2020 13:31

Hmm I see what you mean I guess, it depends who you’re looking at.
My DH is gorgeous naked and looks like a sculpture (unlike me)

LaksaLover · 17/01/2020 13:32

I'm bisexual and I completely agree.

Generally, I'm not attracted to a mans body, but more charisma, eyes etc, but women on the other hand..... it's all about the body Wink Joke. I'm not that shallow, but seriously, women are just so much nicer to look at!

Whynosnowyet · 17/01/2020 13:35

Billy Connolly was most correct in his theory that God had some left over elbow skin and used it to make wee bags for men to carry their balls in..
Imo...
Grin

GothMummy · 17/01/2020 13:41

They are very unattractive but useful.

LaksaLover · 17/01/2020 13:42

@Whynosnowyet Grin and this is why I'm only drawn to a mans inner beauty Grin

BrokenWing · 17/01/2020 13:42

I always thought in The Full Monty the song should have been rewritten as 🎶 You can leave your pants on 🎶

ShakeItUp · 17/01/2020 13:46

Well it depends doesn't it.
I mean, I couldn't find a man sexually attractive if he had a massive beer belly, moobs and manky feet whether he was naked or not.
A naked man with a ripped six pack and muscular arms however......

MakeMineEarlGrey · 17/01/2020 13:48

@Rubixcuube For the sake of argument, I think you mean vulvas not vagina? Unless you are in there, looking with a speculum, you can't see a vagina- just the opening.

Crazybunnylady123 · 17/01/2020 13:49

Never really thought about it. I’m straight and I love my partners body.
I think he’s beautiful, including any scars or marks because it is just him.
I think men’s body’s are attractive but more their bums, chests, legs and eyes.
I wouldn’t stare at a naked man with a flaccid thing dangling there doesn’t do anything for me but an erect penis would.
I would only want to see my partners and I love his so there we go!

FishCanFly · 17/01/2020 13:52

i can relate. I'm 100% heterosexual but there are very few men that i care to see naked.

Aneley · 17/01/2020 13:55

Depends on the 'bits'. Some I found attractive, some not. My DH's bits carry quite an attraction for me, obviously more when in 'ready to go' state than 'relaxed' but still...

PineapplePower · 17/01/2020 13:55

Well I don't really ever find a generic mans body attractive so I don't notice men in the street etc and have never understood things like people drooling at love island etc but I do find my partner attractive because i love him, and I have had relationships with other men too so I'm not repulsed by men

Sums it up for me

AMomHasNoName · 17/01/2020 14:09

I feel exactly the same as you OP. Thought I was just odd.
Maybe I am still haha :D

Newmetoday · 17/01/2020 14:16

Repellent is a bit strong.

I much prefer the male form than female.

easyandy101 · 17/01/2020 14:17

They look better when they're up

I've read arguments that the balls are the real ugly part and a flaccid dick covers them so flaccid is better. Think it was in a haruki murakami book, or maybe ryu murakami, and it talked at length about how floppy dicks weren't "sexy" cos they weren't ready for sex, but presented a nicer picture regardless, which leads to a bit of a contradiction

I can appreciate a naked or half naked male body, but as i don't see it in a sexual sense so the above makes sense to me a bit

CloudsCanLookLikeSheep · 17/01/2020 14:18

I find penises weird when they're standing up or sticking out at a funny angle when hard.

But not repellant, no.

Bluntness100 · 17/01/2020 14:27

The op specifically said she finds a mans penis sexually repellant. Not, it's not very pretty in isolation.

And yes that's unusual for a straight woman.

RubysRoo · 17/01/2020 14:32

Totally agree. I don't think there's much great about private parts in general. Over a chat with a group of girlfriends on a recent evening out, almost everyone agreed.

WeeSleekitTimerousMoosey · 17/01/2020 14:36

There's a reason why male genitals are on the small side in classical sculpture OP.

I thought it was because the ancients found big ones animalistic and unmanly.

I may have imagined reading that though.

GrolliffetheDragon · 17/01/2020 14:56

Well they're not the prettiest things, but it would be weirder if they weren't there.

No speedos though, please. Topless would be fine (man or woman)

Purpleartichoke · 17/01/2020 14:57

Males in general, I find awful naked

Men I am attracted to intellectually and emotionally, are gorgeous naked

veewee · 17/01/2020 15:47

Oh dear, turns out I'm weird then, I very much enjoy the look of a nice hard, erect penis 😋 I've known some very unattractive men, who own truly beautiful cocks! women's vulvas on the other hand do not have the same appeal, & I'm bisexual!

GladAllOver · 17/01/2020 15:58

Some penises look good to me, some don't. It's a matter of personal opinion. They all look better erect though rather than shrivelled.

Spaceprincess · 17/01/2020 16:59

I love looking at attractive naked men who are equipped with excellent penises, and a partial to a bit of gay porn.

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