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..to be furious with Harry and Meghan

247 replies

NeedToGoToBedNow · 09/01/2020 18:41

Ok ok, we've had loads of threads. I accept their decision to want to resign from public duties - always though Harry might do that ...

BUT ... why should we pay for them? How come they get to keep Frogmore cottage, which WE the tax payer have paid for? And we have just paid over 2 million for them to renovate it???

If they want to go their seperate ways from Royal duties, FINE...... BUT , if they do that, they surely should relinquish the perks (i.e. the house, cars, money that comes with the job) and do what the rest of us do - earn their own.

(Feeling irrationally angry for some reason!!!)

OP posts:
ItIsTheWay · 09/01/2020 20:58

If the RF all went, there would be lots more politics with a President, we would need lots of restructure to the unwritten constitution, (the crown is responsible for state care system for example) lose historical buildings, have to fund new housing for a President, elections etc and fund security for both. I prefer a slimmed down status quo.

FreshOrangeClementine · 09/01/2020 20:59

I think. They should lose their Title. That’s the thing they are interested in. Take it away from them .

NotACleverName · 09/01/2020 20:59

What does a Prince do to win in the wokesters Luxury beliefs oppression Olympics?
A - Become a victim.

What the fuck does this even mean?

ItIsTheWay · 09/01/2020 21:04

Why does anyone give a fuck what Harry and Meghan do? So they want to go suddenly live their own lives? Big deal.

I often wonder who buys Zoella and Kardashian goods. Influencers are there for a reason.

I am concerned that a dim former Prince is displaying fascist behavior, he has varied concerning Luxury beliefs and has filed intellectual property rights, someone pulling his strings wants to use him to educate us into right think.

Whatsitthingy · 09/01/2020 21:05

YABU, furious? honestly. There are so many other things in the world to be furious about right now.

temp123900 · 09/01/2020 21:07

Oh for goodness' sake temp12399, grow up. Harry is not black and the criticism is levelled at him just as much as Meghan. Wallis Simpson was not black, and she got the same criticism. Sarah Ferguson is not black, and she's been heavily criticised too. People are comparing Meghan to Diana, and Diana was not black. Out of Meghan's family, the one person that everyone likes is her mother. Doria receives no criticism, while the dad seems to be on the receiving end of quite a lot.

Grow up - your claims of racism are making you look racist yourself.

TigerOnATrain · 09/01/2020 21:10

I don't think they care what you think tbh @NeedToGoToBedNow

Temp123999 · 09/01/2020 21:11

OP
Why are you directing your hate at a mixed race women who has been subjected to racist insults by the press and bitter women on Mumsnet?
Why not Prince Andrew who spent time with a convicted pedophile or Kate who hasn't worked one day in her life, okay it's obvious why Meghan doesn't deserve to be a member of the Royal Family it's boring that you can't even pretend that your not racist 

ItIsTheWay · 09/01/2020 21:11

Woke - alert to injustice in society

Oppression Olympics - once upon a time black women in America wanted to explain why they had different issues to black men. This work was then stolen by privileged people in other countries for their personal gain. Prince Harry has to be a victim to win this game.

I have already defined Luxury beliefs.

Drabarni · 09/01/2020 21:11

Parasites and benefit fraudsters, the whole lot of them.
They aren't like us, a law unto themselves, who can do anything they wish, are uncountable.
What did you expect?

livefornaps · 09/01/2020 21:13

I think they deserve more money from us, like a tenner each

bluemoon19 · 09/01/2020 21:15

Temp Could it not be because Meghan, (and Harry) are topical right now......and also can mixed race people not be disliked?

Temp123999 · 09/01/2020 21:18

@Prevegen4U
So you are allowed to be racist because you have mixed race kids and support Donald Trump...

BigChocFrenzy · 09/01/2020 21:21

The whole RF are a "luxury", who don't benefit ordinary people

They can only relate to their peers in other billionaire families

theunknownknown · 09/01/2020 21:21

They dont get to keep the house, they get to live in the house rent free while they are alive
Er, that's kind of the same thing isn't it? They don't have to worry about being evicted.

BigChocFrenzy · 09/01/2020 21:22

Same as other wealthy families, who let their offspring live rent-free in properties they own

Temp123999 · 09/01/2020 21:23

@PlanDeRaccordement
Prince Andrew thought Epstein was a nice man🤣🤣🤣
How thick are you?
Meanwhile Meghan and Harry's crime is calling out racism.🤷🏾‍♀️

ferntwist · 09/01/2020 21:24

YANBU. It’s the story of our times alas. Very weak to want to keep the perks of privilege (financial support) without fulfilling the full Royal role. I’m baffled as to why they can’t support themselves.

TellMeWhoTheVilliansAre · 09/01/2020 21:29

I’m baffled as to why they can’t support themselves

Being a royal forbids it. Meghan had to give up her own career. "Being Royal" is their job. This will be a bit like Brexit negotiations. It won't be a simple case of saying we don't want to be part of it anymore. It's not like a runaway 16 year old deciding to go it alone from a housing estate somewhere.

ItIsTheWay · 09/01/2020 21:30

Prince Harry wants to be viewed by us as a huge victim.

Prince Harry wants to prevent a free press functioning.

Prince Harry who had access to the best education and private tutors gained the exam results he did and behaved as he has with Royal family advisors.

Prince Harry wants to educate/indoctrinate us in his variety of woke Luxury beliefs that don't benefit the lower classes.

Temp123999 · 09/01/2020 21:37

@WorriedMum6868
"@jinglinghellsbells
I am more concerned at the way the Queen showed complete disdain for Prince Andrews victim than they way M and H have behaved towards her.
I will say it again. Look at the response of this family to these 2 separate incidents. They are furious with M and H yet have remained tight lipped re the disgusting sweaty abuser in their midst. This tells you all you need to about them. If Meghan came on AIBU we would be telling her to go NC with the in laws ffs"
Yes this and this again!
Pervert has sex with teenagers and it's fine.
Mixed race woman wears nail polish and cooks with grenfell victims and she's "uppity"
Ffs

The80sweregreat · 09/01/2020 21:37

I do understand how you feel about all this and it's good that some posters are reasonable as most mumsnetters are ( mostly ) republican on here ( not all , but many are ) nothing wrong with that point of view of course!
It's hard being a normal person trying your best, working hard and not having much money left at the end of the month then reading about these people who have millions in the bank and are moaning about it! It's an unfair world and all this just breeds resentment.
Even if they were to abolish the Royals the president / prime minister ( or whoever was in charge ) would still be costing money ; nothing much would change really. The homes and palaces may become just museums but the taxpayer would still have to upkeep them all in some capacity or other. The money wouldn't really filter down to the ones that need it.
We live in an unjust world and it is hard when your doing your best knowing you'll never have what they have got but then lots of us will never have what they have.
None of them seem that happy and being related to the likes of Prince Andrew certainly wouldn't make me happy , even if I did live in luxury for ever! Being part of that family must be really hard work.
I do under why people are upset about all this but there isn't much any of us can do. There will also be a an ' establishment ' and rich people ; it's never really been any different.
I can see why your angry ; it isn't fair at all but life rarely is unfortunately.

Temp123999 · 09/01/2020 21:45

@temp123900
Stalking me to make a point!
Grow up and stop with the racist shit!!

SisterAgatha · 09/01/2020 21:50

Ok so of course Kate isn’t actually wiping bums on her birthday but I’d imagine she didn’t want to spend the day trying to avoid paps getting pictures of her looking “miserable” because of the news. She might have had part of the day free to have a nice lunch or something. Bet the conversation is flowing nicely in her house right now Hmm so yeah, I would be pretty furious if my whole birthday was dominated by talk of the monarchy. She lives it every day, I bet she’s sick to her back teeth.

londonrach · 09/01/2020 21:50

Kinda not interested...not sure who said it but think...stupid boy...every time i see harry at the moment. Theres alot more important things to worry about including usa iran situation and oz

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