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To consider this wedding dress

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FL59 · 01/01/2020 13:37

...for a relaxed country wedding? I somehow fell in love with this dress. It is completely different to what I initially wanted. We are older, already have kids, so I wanted our wedding to be a small family affair and was planning on a very plain and understated dress (which is very me, I like to blend in the background). But I just love this one and can't stop thinking about it. I have tried it on and it looked amazing. Would it clash with our setting do you think? (A rustic farm in the middle of nowhere)

To consider this wedding dress
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TheSerenDipitY · 02/01/2020 13:18

try them both on again and the one that makes you feel perfect is the one to go with... you could also have your photo taken in both and see if that helps you chose as well

TheSerenDipitY · 02/01/2020 13:20

btw... apparently when you find the dress, you know it and everyone seeing you in it knows its your dress... so if that floaty 1st dress makes you feel beautiful and perfect then its the one... choose for you not anyone else

Ninkanink · 02/01/2020 13:22

I agree, you shouldn’t have consulted with anyone. The original one isn’t right, or you wouldn’t have fallen in love with another one. Why are you letting other people tell you what’s more ‘you’? You love the other one, and you know you better than anyone else does...

Go for it! Do the brave thing and go with your heart. It’s your day.

flouncyfanny · 02/01/2020 13:26

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timeforawine · 02/01/2020 13:28

Dress 1. It's what YOU love that matters, i picked a dress my husband/mum/MIL wouldn't have chosen, i was the one wearing it not them and it made me happy and feel special.
Don't let you family decide for you, this is YOUR wedding and you do what YOU love.
Dress 1 is so beautiful.
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