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To ask what are your NYE plans.

224 replies

tired456 · 30/12/2019 23:12

I've never liked NYE. I have a few mental and social issues and I always feel pressure to have to do something.

I would give anything to enjoy socialising but I just don't.

What are you all up too x

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Needmorecaffine · 31/12/2019 18:18

@Comps83 Good luck ! Will you be in the papers as one of the first Mums in 2020 ? Grin

Comps83 · 31/12/2019 18:20

@Needmorecaffine it’s looking doubtful but hopefully it will be sometime tomorrow

Sparklybaublefest · 31/12/2019 18:20

Turns out I am picking up DD from a party, no alcohol for me

cptartapp · 31/12/2019 18:20

Currently sat on the apartment balcony in Seville watching the sunset over the city. It's stunning. Been really warm today. Hot shower, then out to the square to mingle and watch the fireworks.

MonnaLIza · 31/12/2019 18:34

@cptartapp hellooo from Manch to Seville!!

@Comps83 congratulations!! Best of luck!!

MonnaLIza · 31/12/2019 18:36

Lovely view from our hotel. Maybe I'll move to Manchester in the next decade.

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SimonJT · 31/12/2019 18:37

Boyfriend is having a nap so he can stay awake until midnight, he’s 27 but clearly feels 87!

DaphneduM · 31/12/2019 18:41

Have already had a bath. Got a really heavy cold so will probably have an early night. Even when really young and sociable, I've never liked New Years Eve, there's something very unsettling and depressing about it, unlike Christmas. I've done the New Year's best wishes to all loved ones, so will just chill out until bedtime. (DH hates New Year's Eve too!!!). Fun people, aren't we?!!!!!!

Wannabegreenfingers · 31/12/2019 18:42

We are seeing in the new year year with cheese, cold meats, fizz, Harry Potter and the kids. It's been a difficult year and 2020 will be tough as we start marriage counselling. I just hope this time next year we are happy and together 💗

MonnaLIza · 31/12/2019 18:44

@Simon: I used to do that in my 20s! I actually used to have naps in clubs in London. Have a wonderful night!!!

MonnaLIza · 31/12/2019 18:46

@Wannabegreenfingers best of luck. We went through all that and came out stronger together. I wish you that too with all my heart.

ghostyslovesheets · 31/12/2019 18:47

was going for a meal followed by dancing and bad singing with my best mates (husband and wife) but then 2 other couples tagged on so I decided to skip the meal (being the token single one) I'm meeting them in a couple of hours for the dancing!

cptartapp · 31/12/2019 18:50

Monna hello!

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InOmniaParatus13 · 31/12/2019 19:02

I'm 34 weeks pregnant with my first child, and I'm currently snuggled up in bed with my cat, feeling my son kick and wriggle. I'm being induced around 37 weeks,.so this is absolute perfectionGrin

1foot2feet · 31/12/2019 19:06

Neighbours, who I am close friends with, are having a party and I've been invited but once again been let down so have to stay in with DD and hear everyone having fun without me (definitely feeling a bit sorry for myself)

Monstermummymum · 31/12/2019 19:07

Takeaway and a bottle of prosecco with Netflix and DH. Kids will be asleep 🎉 (fingers crossed!)

Bouledeneige · 31/12/2019 19:45

Ive ended up in A&E with my 90 year old Dad. Been here since 4pm..... probably another hour till a Doctor can view his test results. We think he will be discharged.

MerryDeath · 31/12/2019 21:49

I'm just about to shower and get ready for bed. toddler is in bed and i'm literal days from dropping #2 so i have a good excuse to not be involved with any drunken nonsense, which i hate, on NYE or at any other time.

goingtoneedabiggercar · 31/12/2019 21:51

We had planned a quiet night in with our 5 week old however we are now at the emergency vets as DCat 2 looks to have a kidney type problem. Such fun.

Wannabegreenfingers · 01/01/2020 10:09

@MonnaLIza - Thank you. I really hope we have the same outcome. My husband is just so angry right now and its seems I can do nothing right x

MonnaLIza · 01/01/2020 14:02

@Wannabegreenfingers - I was so angry too and if I can just say one thing which may be or may not be fitting at all, my anger was anger towards myself. It took me a while to see that.

Wannabegreenfingers · 01/01/2020 15:11

@MonnaLIza - can I ask how many session yoh had and when it all started to sink in? I appreciate that everyone's circumstances are different x

Comps83 · 01/01/2020 15:42

@Needmorecaffine
Reporter was wanting to put us in the paper this morning. Me and 2 others in this hospital . Not sure if anyone else obliged but I certainly wasn’t up for it

MonnaLIza · 03/01/2020 07:25

@Wannabegreenfingers we had about 12 sessions. It took us about three months with the sessions to get out of the worse period, then six months to reconnect and in total about one year. I would say try not to go with an outcome in mind but be open. I was convinced I'd split up and really wanted out but I am so glad I gave it another chance.

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