To message him when he's out with friends ...hardly spoke all day.
awayupthe · 26/12/2019 18:09
I've been seeing a guy since August.
Anyway haven't seen him in 5 days with it being Christmas etc.
We've been texting all Xmas eve/Xmas day
Spoke on the phone the other night for nearly 3 hours.
Anyway he has hardly said a word all day.
He went out at 2pm with his friends on a pub crawl.
Every time he goes out he forgets I exist but is posting pics of pints to Snapchat /Facebook.
Haven't spoke since about 1pm when I was trying to make convo but I could tell he couldn't be arsed.
Do I text him now?
Just general light heart convo or will I be annoying him whilst he's out with friends?
muddledmidget · 26/12/2019 18:12
I wouldn't, just text him goodnight when you go to bed. If you text with light conversation are you expecting him to reply and keep a conversation going? Or will you get annoyed if he doesn't respond as you wish? If I was out with friends I wouldn't be texting my partner, and probably wouldn't even be checking my phone
thebluearsefly · 26/12/2019 18:16
“ Every time he goes out he forgets I exist but is posting pics of pints to Snapchat /Facebook”
^^ This is a red flag, it sounds incredibly controlling and a bit unhinged - you’ve been dating 5 months! He spends hours on the phone to you and you’re only apart for 5 days. I think you need to take a step back
LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 26/12/2019 18:17
That's horribly needy, OP. Are you unable to find something else to do today instead of checking up on him/making sure that your'e front and centre all the time?
If I had a boyfriend that did this, he'd be dumped. I can't stand clingyness, it's really unattractive.
Don't do it, do something else that you'd enjoy doing.
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