Boyfriend cheating.. just found out..

[Beebeezed]

Omg, I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend has gone out on a work do. I kept hearing a pinging coming from his office so I went in to mute whatever device it was and it was his iPad. Went to mute it and saw the message ‘can’t wait babe’ on the home screen. Obviously I opened it and have now found hundreds of messages between him and another girl. No idea who she is. Haven’t even looked into that yet. Just read the messages. He says he loves her. I have an 8 month old baby I feel sick please what shall I do from here? He’s just text me saying he misses me and I can see on the iPad he’s text her saying he misses her

He is unbelievable, What a bastard. He will grovel & promise to ditch OW.
Unfortunately you need to go to GUM clinic now, remember that when he is promising he didn't stick his dick in her

I'm sorry I havent had a chance to read the while thread as I've got a little one myself. My partner cheated on me when our child was very young, I took him back because of the baby, he then cheated on me again recently and its turned out that he never did stop cheating with multiple people in between. I'm not saying this is what your boyfriend has done but I'm just saying that from my experience they dont change if you let them get away with it by taking them back.

Thinking of you op x

Hope you’re ok OP.

You’re amazing and you and your DD will be fine without that horrible, little turd in your lives!

OP you’ve acted amazingly well. I really hope the strength stays with you x

Hope you're ok. Xx

OP I have nothing but respect for you and your reaction to this betrayal. I hope these next few days and weeks will be kind to you and your baby... take good care

My heart breaks for you, hope you are ok x

I'm so sorry you're going through this OP
What an incredibly classy exit as someone said upthread. Stay strong OP, it will get better and you've got this.

Oh dear. What a shit time to find out. I wish you strength.

Well done girlie, you left with your head held high,

I can only reiterate what others have said. I am so sorry for the situation you are in.

You married a right shitpot!
For you💐

God, Op, you are so strong and dignified! Well done.

Just want to give you a massive hug and tell you that you and your baby will be more than fine. Take all the help and support that's offered and don't be forced into having conversations you're not ready to have xx

If he is anything like my ex, he will probably come back with some lame excuse that she is just a close friend he loves. That they meet up for coffee and catch ups etc only. Dont fall for that excuse!

One door closes, another opens!

Does the girl know about you and the baby, or is she also being deceived?

Just read through and wanted to say well done for acting with such dignity and composure.

Im sure the pain must be unbearable right now but it will get better over time. Sending hugs.

Agree reply using ipad. Tell me not to bother coming home

OP, I'm glad you have support and well done for leaving with such grace.

You should be so god damn proud of yourself ♥️ you've been strong, and calm and dignified and as someone else said an amazing role model to your baby!!!

Your mum also sounds amazing too, stay with her and let her look after you. I know you'll feel rotten but put it to the back of your mind and try and have a wonderful Christmas with your family and your baby, make some special memories

What a fine

I mean cunt

I am so sorry. I hope you were able to rest.
In search of a silver lining or a small consolation in the method of discovery there is this:
You now know exactly what an accomplished liar he is and need not accept another word he says about anything, ever.

Hope you are looking after yourself x