I want to live in a normal country.
Normal countries get to keep the income they generate and choose how they spend it - not have to pay it to their next door neighbour who keeps what they want and gives you back an amount of pocket money that they've decided for you. Then tell you you are poor and should be grateful for the "subsidies".
Normal countries get to borrow if they need to, and to manage their own deficit if they have one - not have the country next door borrow recklessly in your name, without consultation with you, and allocate a share of their debt to you, while insisting that when you spend your pocket money you cannot go a penny over budget.
Normal countries get to set their own income tax levels - not have the country next door set them for you, then allow you tinker a little, as long as you don't undercut the country next door. If they decide to put theirs up by 10% then you have to too.
Normal countries get the governments they vote for - not the government the country next door votes for.
Normal countries can choose not to have a nuclear deterrent - not have WMD housed on the doorstep of your largest city despite an overwhelming majority of your elected representatives and members of the public voting against them but, hey the country next door wants
them, so long as they are kept at a distance, so you have a nuclear deterrent. And to add insult to injury, the country next door decided that as the WMD are in your country, all the costs for it are allocated to your country. Yay, more deficit that we didn't choose to run up!
Normal countries get to make their own environmental decisions - not have the country next door dump all their nuclear waste in some of your most beautiful spots, or take away most of your powers on renewables without consultation, resulting in green energy projects having to be scrapped.
Normal governments get to make the decisions that are right for their country - not decisions that are right for the country next door but wrong for you, and if you don't like it then tough, you can mitigate or lump it.
Most countries have a government that is an established entity with fixed powers - not one that can have its powers removed at the whim of the country next door, leaving it little more power than a parish council.
Power devolved is power retained. Currently the Scottish government has only about 30% control of Scotland, the EU has 5% and Westminster has 65%. As a normal independent country we would have 100% control if out of the EU and 95% if in.
The UK state was supposed to be a union of two equal countries, but instead Westminster has chosen to ignore this and go by size instead. But as England has ten times the population of Scotland, we can be outvoted on every single issue at every turn, and this is especially galling on matters where we have opposing views, which seems to be everything at the moment.
So if we as the smaller country can never outvote you, it means we will never get what we vote for, only what you vote for. And then you have to ask yourself: if we can never get what we vote for, unless you happen to vote for it too, what is the point of being in as union? What exactly is in it for us? And the answer is: very little.
I want to live in a normal country.