Oliversmumsarmy but If your family has complex medical needs, where would you go that you’d get this better than you do now (or for free
We pay.
We have to pay. Outside of giving birth we have had to pay to get treated for everything.
Dp has cancer
It is a type of cancer that if caught early leads to a full recovery.
He went to see the doctors over and over.
His dad died of this type of cancer and he asked if it could be that.
He finally ended up being diagnosed as terminal on a trolley in A&E when he had got so ill he could barely stand.
They then decided he would be an ideal candidate for a particular operation but as it would only buy him 2-4 more years they wouldn’t give it him.
We paid nearly £80,000 for him to have the operation privately.
I put my back out whilst I was pregnant.
I couldn’t lift one foot without major pain and for 7 years I did all the nhs physio and consultants and had my zimmerframe and 2 children under 2 at one point.
Was told I needed a new hip.
Eventually I went private and was diagnosed with a slipped disc within 15 minutes. Not one person had looked at my back and they refused me an MRI (which I had done privately) as it cost too much.
The NHS though isn’t free and people need to get their mind round that