I get that you had a deprived childhood and I had a similar one so can empathise. What I don't get is how, given the level of deprivation you describe, you were able to set up a business and afford to pay staff? And make that business successful.
My Mum, as a single mother in the 70's never ever got to a stage where she had any kind of contingency money. Never. We lived hand to mouth and there was never money for extras. Owning her own house was a pipe dream and owning a business would have been impossible
Firstly there wasn’t any staff. There were 8 people all working and taking no money from the profits.
Only thing taken was the money for rent and food.
If your mother lived in your home and there was 7 other adults working multiple hours + per week bringing in 7 pay packets and not having anything else to spend money on then can you not see how you can get yourself out of poverty.
Having said that, the 70s under a Labour government with all their taxes and the inflation and not being able to order things and they arrive in time because some company in the supply chain had gone on strike made even with 8 people’s incomes hard to keep going.
I can sympathise with your dm as my family only kept themselves from losing everything because we went back to living on one meal per day and all moving in together to cut bills when everyone had their own house.
We should have moved countries but we had elderly relatives who couldn’t and wouldn’t move countries again.
I am actually shocked at the comments that it doesn’t matter what you do now that if you are in poverty you stay in poverty until presumably a Labour government gets in and rescues you.
I did see a programme a little while ago about people who worked 100 hours per week and still struggled to make ends meet.
Now I only saw the end of the programme so can’t comment on who was on it before but I did see one guy who went from job to job and couldn’t make ends meet.
I could see immediately the problem wasn’t about how many hours he worked but he had one business that he was keeping open for the good of the community that was slowly bankrupting him.
If he ditched that one business then he would have been much better off.
The bills that business generated far I would guess either far outweighed its income or on a yearly basis or if he added up the hours spent and the profit he made it would be pence per hour he would have earned.
Sometimes it isn’t about working harder but working smarter.