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To think people who parent like this do their children no favours

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lastqueenofscotland · 06/11/2019 20:11

Back story, as a bit of a side hustle I ride some horses for a lady who keeps them on her own private property. These are fully fit Competition horses, not novice or easy rides. It is a paid arrangement which I am grateful for.

A colleague overheard me talking about it to someone yesterday and chirped up that their 11 year old started riding last year and she’d love to come and ride these horses... I brushed it off and just laughed and said “oh haha it’s not really that sort of set up”

Today she came to me and said quite seriously “when can my daughter come and ride” to which I explained they are not my horses, they are kept on private property and they are not appropriate rides for a child”
To which the woman turned round looking horrified saying that she’d told her daughter about me and how she could come and ride these horses. I stressed that it wasn’t appropriate or safe.
She then sent me an email later in the day asking if I couldn’t just ask the lady that owns them and surely she could just come round and have a quick ride. I ignored the email.
If she brings it up again WIBU to point out animals are not toys and if she’s the one who’s disappointed her daughter, not me?!

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To think people who parent like this do their children no favours
To think people who parent like this do their children no favours
LittleMissTeacup · 10/11/2019 21:08

Just following for the update when she asks again!
Obviously I know this needs to be handled in a grown-up way, but I love the PP suggestion of being “yeah sure she can - I need her racehorse qualifications, her public liability insurance, a few grand as a deposit and a written wavier”. Would just love to see a reaction after this!

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