AIBU to think this wasn't racist...
Followed by a long overly-defensive OP where the OP does a massive job trying to justify why it's completely fine that she or her kid said something completely inappropriate or offensive.
Then lots of white women come in to say it wasn't racist and basically repeat the same bullshit back to the OP that was in the OP.
Then a few WOC will come on and explain, very clearly, why it was racist.
They will get ignored.
Then one lone WOC (or someone who says their a WOC) will come on and defend OP's actions and justification at which point all the white women take this as evidence that the OP wasn't racist because this one WOC speaks for an entire group.
All this time, OP, is repeating her same old bullshit about why she's not racist.
I tend to just dip in and say "Read Reni Eddo-Lodge" then I mute the thread.