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Help please guys re family court

195 replies

looondonn · 04/11/2019 15:08

Sorry to post here I just want as much help as possible

Have other threads on here re leaving an abusive man with my 7 week old daughter after he tried to kill me

Now live with my family in N Ireland

He has gone to family court and filed for me to attend a sitting in London in a few weeks

My daughter and I live away from there as we had to flee the abuse

Police investigation is on going can some one please help me with this

My solicitor was under the impression if he wanted to do anything he would have to apply to the family court in N Ireland
I do not want this evil man having unsupervised acesss as he has hurt me many times in front of her and put us both in hospital

What may happen next guys
Please please help
Please

Thanks all

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looondonn · 15/11/2019 00:34

Ok just sent a Dm

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looondonn · 22/11/2019 15:41

Nonotmenori I have contacted the solicitor that was recommended on here
Many thanks again for all the responses
The help has been wonderful

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looondonn · 22/11/2019 15:58

Happyspud thanks for the recommendation

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looondonn · 02/12/2019 23:01

Pray for me for tomorrow please guys xx

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SkySmiler · 03/12/2019 11:34

Good luck ❤️

looondonn · 03/12/2019 17:26

Thank you

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looondonn · 15/12/2019 11:08

Hello all

Did not attend
Been two weeks now and have not received a letter or anything from court

The best advice I got was from you guys on here thank you

Guess it is now just a waiting game to see what happens next

The English solicitor was adament that I was doing the wrong thing ???!!

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looondonn · 15/12/2019 12:12

*adamant

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looondonn · 15/12/2019 16:45

Guys does anyone know how long it will take for them to get back to me?

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looondonn · 18/12/2019 16:02

Next hearing is in Feb 2020

It is a first hearing dispute resolution appointment

What is this and what do I need to do next ??

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Nonotmenori · 19/12/2019 10:59

Hi OP,

Hope you're ok?

looondonn · 31/01/2020 13:45

Thank you to all of you how helped me on here

Case has been dismissed

What a nightmare

You all helped so very much and I very much appreciate it
Had very few people to talk to and did not want to trouble my family as they have been through so much

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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oodlemynoodle · 31/01/2020 13:48

Judge Meehan?

looondonn · 31/01/2020 13:49

Gosh let me check

Central family court Holborn

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looondonn · 31/01/2020 13:50

Could cry with relief !!!
My girl has moved away from there long time ago so happy they have accepted this

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oodlemynoodle · 31/01/2020 14:18

Ah, I thought you were in court in Belfast

Pleased for you

looondonn · 31/01/2020 14:25

No

Will wait to see when he takes it to belfast

I'm ready for him !!!

Got so much great help on here especially when I was in the stage of 'is this abuse or did I cause all this myself, maybe I deserve it'
Was horrific but safe now

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PicsInRed · 31/01/2020 14:46

So pleased it's worked out for you OP. 💐

looondonn · 31/01/2020 15:23

Thank you all

So many great people on here

Was so ashamed of it all I hid a lot and refused to talk about it to anyone

Opened up on here and started to hatch an escape plan
It's not all over yet
He is still harassing me
Just so glad there is no more threats of London court cases and cafcass !!!

Who knows what the judge in belfast will say he is still going to get me somehow but this is a good result 👍🏻❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘

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LucyAutumn · 31/01/2020 15:23

Well done OP Flowers

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